Re: Would you stay friends with your broken rishta?
My rishta ended things recently but he wants to remain friends with me. I cant understand why.
I dont prefer to stay friends with him but he messages me sometimes that he misses me and stuff. I dont respond when he messages me such things.
What would you do?
HELL NO!
Re: Would you stay friends with your broken rishta?
munni, just block his address, if the msgs are not there, u wont be tempted/intrigued to read them and thus you may not wreck yourself if he says something that gets to you. better for your mental health and stress.
he has called it off, if he wants at some point in time to restart anything, he should then go thru the families and all anyways.
Re: Would you stay friends with your broken rishta?
munni, just block his address, if the msgs are not there, u wont be tempted/intrigued to read them and thus you may not wreck yourself if he says something that gets to you. better for your mental health and stress.
he has called it off, if he wants at some point in time to restart anything, he should then go thru the families and all anyways.
fraudia bhai is right. Blocking him out completely will definitely force him to think about exactly what he wants and if he really can't live without you and he's realized that you are the one for him then he will himself come to you along with his family.
The last two lines that fraudia has said are really important because this way he won't be able to play with your emotions and mess with your mind when his family is involved in this so things can actually go forward in the right way.
Re: Would you stay friends with your broken rishta?
My rishta ended things recently but he wants to remain friends with me. I cant understand why.
I dont prefer to stay friends with him but he messages me sometimes that he misses me and stuff. I dont respond when he messages me such things.
What would you do?
Don't respond...
Re: Would you stay friends with your broken rishta?
its just wrong to stay friends with ur X rishtas... unless ur current partner is not satisfying you enough mentaly/physicaly in anyway u might need to go back to old rishtas in search for whatver is antsing in ur pants
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No Move On!
Re: Would you stay friends with your broken rishta?
munni ignore, move ahead, dont look back
i would never remain friends:)
Re: Would you stay friends with your broken rishta?
Munni, its naturel to have "some feelings" eventhough your rishta ended. Give yourself time. I understand you more than you may think.....
Once the emotional attachement gets cut, you will be ok.
Yet to land there, the pre-phase is to let go and stop communication.
Ghosts of the past, belong to the past...they should not influence in-directly your future.
As a woman, I mean you good. Had you been my sister or daughter, Id want you emotionally healed ASAP...... But you have a responsibility too in this part, and that is to protect yourself and give yourself respect. The higher selfesteem you posses thus better you will end up getting treated by all in this world.
Hugs and lots of love, from an elder sis......
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aww munni i am sorry to hear that i remeber a thread abt ur engagement,
is it a definate off thing or r u two just angry at the moment
well i guess its up to u if it is definately off then no point of keeping in touch y does he miss u after he doesnt hve u nemore.
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It's best to move on. Why does he want to remain friends - he's a selfish bum who's preventing you from moving on.
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Thanks for the replies.
I respect his decision to move on. One of his reasons, infact two of them now that I think about it, were good reasons I suppose. I was preventing him from doing something he really wanted to do in his life and he said that was one of the biggest reasons, and so for that I totally understand.
Allahu Alam.
I'm moving on, Insha'Allah. Allah does for the best.
He has not been in touch with me. I suppose thats a good thing.
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I personally couldnt be friends with my broken rishta, well u did mention that he's backed off- maybe he's realised ur not so comfortable with it
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Sweet sis- i dunno why your rishta cracked!...But text back and say to ur ex-rishta "IF your love & feelings were so first-class and strong then we would've been somewhere regarding any issue that prevented us from staying away for good since relationships are all about compromising & ups and downs, your feelings aren't feelings but sounds like lust baby"
I know how u must feel!...but remeber have faith in god and ask him to give you strength so you can eliminate ur feelings quickly.
Re: Would you stay friends with your broken rishta?
My rishta ended things recently but he wants to remain friends with me. I cant understand why.
I dont prefer to stay friends with him but he messages me sometimes that he misses me and stuff. I dont respond when he messages me such things.
What would you do?
depends on the person ,
some ppl are real good friends ,
others can be very dangerous ,
Re: Would you stay friends with your broken rishta?
It's best to move on. Why does he want to remain friends - he's a selfish bum who's preventing you from moving on.
does friendship stop you from moving on - NO WAY CATTY
Re: Would you stay friends with your broken rishta?
one more thing , loosing interest in some1 is totally diffferent then being friendly to him . a good example is that you can be friendlier with everyone , but you rarely get interested in people that easily :)
but it depends on the person , and certain people mix these 2 things . once you are interested in someone , even if the whole world becomes your very good friend , you do not loose interest , but if you are not interested in someone , no matter how friendly he would be , he cannot gain your attention .
but it's better to avoid complications , as men have totally different views regarding this .
personally i would never take that risk of being friendly with such a person , as he may take my friendly behaviour , to be something else :)
move on .
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We are no longer communicating so that took care of the issue. Thanks for the replies.
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i m sorry to hear about it and yea u shouldnt be even friends with him anymore either. Personally if i was in ur shoe, i would feel really awkward and weird even talking to him.
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Bichara is confused don't stay in touch with him be forim and tell him it isn't right..girl you have better things to look forward to in the future? who wants to dwell in the past forerver? I know pleanty of people who have broken rishtas and now they are happy as ever because they knew what they wanted and are living life..do the same..move on!!!!
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I'm not dwelling on it any longer. I've realized we werent compatible, which was his reason for calling it off. I think he made the right decision. smile