Would you stay friends with your broken rishta?

Re: Would you stay friends with your broken rishta?

Why carry along with you a spark which can anytime light fire in your future house. If he MISSES you than it means that he has FEELINGS for you which can anytime become so intense that it might also increase the presently minor feelings INSIDE you (for him) at anytime in future when you are married to someone else. THAT would become a very difficult time for you. It would be better to select one boat instead of placing one foot on one boat and another foot on another, in that case the maximum chances are that you might fall in between the two boats.

The following confusions (contradictory statements) could prove very bad for you and your future husband.

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Yes, I do have feelings for him
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I am not saying I wish to continue being friends with him
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he wants to remain friends so why not?
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