And where do YOU live?
it's pretty obvious and well known, women tend to be abused or at least not treated fairly still in many instances in Pakistan.
If it doesnt happen in your family or social circle, God bless you and Mashallah.
I live in the US where I do not see women in the Pakistani community being 'commonly' abused, given STD'S or cheated on, thats where I am coming from so yes I am blessed. Now I would like to know where you guys are living and seeing these things 'commonly' commited? the OP is from UK so pakistan is out of the equation here, lets bring in some objectivity and not start calling every pakistani girl a hapless idiot with no education, waiting to be victimized.