would you share everything incl ur money with hubby?

[DramayBazz]

@PyariCgudia

Most of these Pakistani girls who get married, don’t have much of an education, and most certainly do not have job experience earning six figure salaries like you did. So her little piece of land means A LOT to her. Not only that, but desi families living abroad have had to deal with a lot of crap. So that piece of land that her FATHER saved up for and bought and gave to her probably has some significant sentimental value as well.

So, I know you probably think you’re more wiser than the rest of us, but we girls know what’s in store for us, and most of it is sheer crap. Our petty inheritances are all we have to secure us in case our husbands cheat on us (common), pass on STD’s to us (common), take on extra wives (not common, but definitely happens), beat us (more common that I thought), abuse us emotionally (very common), or his parents/siblings give us hell (common).

whaaaat? most pakistani girls who get married don’t have an education?? no job experience?? basically you are implying her jahez is her lifeline which will keep her afloat in marriage?! this alone tells me you are not married yourself, you have such warped views on marriage and men…STD’s, abuse, cheating all common?! where are you living woman? seriously, please do not misguide girls here who are discussing real issues with your horrific assumptions. the thread opener is talking about buying property in the UK where all local laws will apply, she is not some jahil in some gaoon. what are you going on about?

to answer the thread opener’s q, i would say talk out all your apprehensions that you have outlined here with your hubby. weigh all the pros and cons together, you are in it together now so all decisions have to be made mutually. some very good advice in here by some experienced married ladies. good luck.