would you share everything incl ur money with hubby?

[Niksik]

@Sara_pathan

say, you own a piece of land given to you by ur dad, and your husband who has seen halaat in pakistan worsen, wants to buy a house here in the uk but both of u have no mony for deposit, so would you sell that piece of land you have been given by ur dad in order for u to be able to buy something here. now this idea is coming from the husband, who is a decent guy so pls no money grabbing stories here, he wanted to go back to pakistan, however seeing the situation therenow is thinking of buying something here so we can live here and stuff.

for the girl, this makes sense, however she still feels like hey its my land given to me, so its mine, not urs to do anything with, i dnt know why, i cant share, or feel like its all mine, why shud he ask, however i know this is also a wrong atitude as whats mine is his, and vice versa, and what hes saying is a solution anyway…cant help feeling like wtf, …is thisweird…

If I had some inheritance/gift from my parents I would not hesitate to spend it for my family. Not even for a second.

The problem in marriage comes when the me mine and I sets in. We will both benefit from it right?