I don't think you understood that hadith...
It means those are 4 reasons typically why men marry women, and of those 4 only the first one is sanctioned by Islam...
So...no, you cannot marry for wealth and status...
Wow...looks around I feel like I'm in a twilight zone.
These are for VALID reasons for a man to marry a woman, hadith doesn't say that you cannot marry for beauty, wealth or lineage, you are saying that. Islam encourages you to marry who you find attractive and Jaweria(ra) married Prophet(SAW) due to his lineage.
And also, if you have all of these four qualities you'll have greater reasons to demand your rights from your husband.
Also, women who support their husbands in finances have a bigger reward than a man who supports his family because he does it out of his obligation when the woman does it out of being altruistic.
So by discouraging women from helping you are depriving them of the extra reward if they're in the position of helping.
And I'm not saying this based on one hadith rather an opinion is formulated as a result of scholarly readings of a collection of relevent hadith.
My source is Shaykh Hamza Yusuf Hanson.