Re: would you share everything incl ur money with hubby?
Sorry if I sound weird but I personally believe that a man should not even think of scrounging of his wife. Please take a look at my thread in Life1 called Greedy inlaws.
If you use your land to buy the house please make sure you hold the property as tenants in common so on the death of one partner the prop will NOT goto the other. It will go to whoever you state in your will. The right of survivorship will Not apply. Hence, your partner may not be able to get the house 
Is he the type who’s always demanding? or the greedy type? If yes, then I suggest you go as tenants in common
I’m joking by the way 