Re: would you share everything incl ur money with hubby?
Her reason for feeling uncomfortable is totally valid, and even Islam recognizes it. So why can't you come to terms with that? I warn her of land grabbing and that sort of thing, because even if for now she believes it may not happen, it might still happen down the road. I don't know how well she knows her husband, if this is a new marriage, etc.
I know of cases where things like that have happened some years down the line, and no one expected it because the guy was so religious and imandaar, etc. All beards and religion for show, and inside, people get greedy and do stupid things.
At the end of the day, protect yourself. Or don't protect yourself, take a risk - maybe things will turn out ok (mashallah) or they won't, in which case, please don't come onto GS and start crying about it.