Would you say yes to a guy who...

has no college education? But is from a very good family, really good looking and overall a very decent person?

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If he is willing to continue his education in near future then Yes - But if he see no point getting a college degree then Bloody No ...

what kind of good families dont push their kids for getting proper education ?

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Depends on the question he asked.

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Exactly, says a lot for the family if they didn't push their kids to get a formal education. If by 'good' family the OP means a well settled, affluent family that is.

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may be yes...

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Depends does he have a hot sister I can sleep with?

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^Seriously, CM? That’s really crude…even for a troll like you. :rolleyes:

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sniff But he is a guy. Why would I want to marry him? It would be the sister would it not? You wound me by not understanding the hidden meaning. Now I am annoyed. sniff

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^kleenex? :chai::rolleyes:

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Why thank you sniff However I am still annoyed!

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Your mentality will be way different than his which ties to many factors such decision making, respect towards women, and future stability. He might not give you the rights that you deserve due to learning curve. I have seen some examples in real life. If the guy is not financially stable then it leads to horrible marriage life. Men I have encountered in my life acts like they are very shareef but they are something else on other side of the picture... Don't blindly go for his looks. Explore his mentality before you make your decision. He should be your main focus not the family…

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if his personality is soft then go for it hun ! ..

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What she means is that if he’s soft in the head…(which may even be due to a lack of edumacation)…you should definitely go for it.

More seriously…

:hinna:

and

:smack:

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LOL…all the pressure is making me look for something positive in it. :confused:

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Yes.. I am, even tho I never thought I would..

**I wouldn't recommend it unless you are 100% sure he can stand on his own two feet.. **It is rare but possible to be financially secure without higher education.. Also, people are so different it's not a given that his mentality is going to be more backward or whatever because he didn't go to uni (but you need to get as good an idea of his personality as possible anyway to make sure you're compatible)..

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Men with egos can't tolerate his wife being more educated than him... BE REALISTIC sister because this type of issue does create a problem down the road.

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my parents will say no to this rishta, and since I dont believe in having a bf so instead of being sympathetic i would take my parent's advice. unless guy really like me (which I highly doubt) and convinces me (though i am very hard to be convinced).

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No.

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Most uneducated single Pakistani men in America are big losers and party animals and doubled-face ... They are not responsible and don't have the traits to provide a good life to their families. Yes, I am generalizing due to my experience... HELL NO TO UNEDUCATED MEN!!!

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I would say yes. Why not? If he is able to provide for you and he's a good person, why does his education matter. Plus im currently in University and a lot of people have returned to school because they are unable to find employment with their degree and education. So having an education doesn't mean your "stable" I know in Pakistan it's important to be educated to get a job, but here you have more options then just going into post secondary education. I don't think it's fair to judge someone's family character if they are not as educated as you'd like them to be.

Plus, would you rather marry a Doctor who is a complete ass and beats you everyday after dinner, or a decent guy who provides enough and treats you well, though that is another disscussion.