Would you marry a person you couldnt date?

For example. Your parents would accept because he is a muslim, and you were dating a non muslim, your parents caught you, now they want you to marry a muslim, would you still marry them?

Personally you wont love to look at him, or feel proud walking by his side. etc

What if all male children you have with him look like him?? Then the whole circle you went through now repeats for your childern. Then there will 3 or 4 chicks faced with same question in 25-45 years :smiley:

What if female children look like him .. I don’t want to imagine that…

Please discuss.

Re: Would you marry a person you couldnt date?

Koi tum sai bhi tu Shadi karey gi Monk.

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I don't think it's right if parents make you marry someone who you're not too fond of. It's important to make sure you can love/admire the person before making that kind of connection.

So no I wouldn't marry a person if my parents forced me to, UNLESS I liked who they were.

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I already married someone I couldn't date (not before marriage anyway). Does that count?

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Yes!
And I didn't, I am happy for that. She is happier :D

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Nope.

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dude how do you expect drama in life if you finish discussion in one word ?

been there done that :)

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WHAT? :eek:

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My Marraige was arranged always.

If I did not know the person I was to be married to it matters not.

However I am no fool and will not rush into something like that, if I was unhappy with the "arrangements" I would make it very clear... I would dissapear for a while and that would get the message across. :)

For the record if I did not know the girl, but knew her fammily or her country or her belief then that is enough. I would trust my parents would find a suitable match... they know me all too well.

As it was my Mothers choice was always good.

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If I couldnt date them because they were out of my league, then hell yes I'd marry them!

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Did not know monks could tie the knot (unless they are tying their tie)

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LOL

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is dating and marriage directly proportionate to each other?

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Practicing for marriage :D

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Are you getting married? :eek:

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One day when I meet a woman psychotic enough to deal with me :D

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^ is main itna hairan honey wali kia bt hy. is he she

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So you are now admitting to being psychotic. I see.

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a good girlfriend does not always mean a good wife.