i personally believe.. that sects are man made.. im a muslim.. not a shia, sunni, ahemedi.. or nething else.. so personally it wouldnt matter to me if i marred a muslim that was classified by society as a different sect to mine… as its only Allah Mians decision to differentiate..
anyways… how many of you would or wouldnt marry a person who is from a different ‘sect’ and why…
my fiance is of a different sect of a muslim than myself!! we have been dating for the past 6 years!! so thats why IM doing it!! don't know about anyone else!!
kewl :) do u reckon it'll cause a difference if you have children?
p.s i hope things go well for both of u Inshallah :)
lol if she's hot! :D
although there are many factors which determine a proper muslim, one of which is that, until ur beliefs aren't according to the beliefs of the Ahlus sunnah Wal Jamaa u aren't a proper muslim.
Sure! why not? IF that person promises to not make fun of my beliefs... :)
Saddzz........
im sure it will cause problems at every point in our relationship and marriage, although i have agreed with the "cultural" issue of the kids following what the father is.
thanks!
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although there are many factors which determine a proper muslim, one of which is that, until ur beliefs aren't according to the beliefs of the Ahlus sunnah Wal Jamaa u aren't a proper muslim.
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i thought it was according to the Quran.. and the belief that there is only one God and Mohammad is his messenger... and all muslims accept that
Pagal Insan.. u silly person :) (im not hot hehe)
Hajra... well lets hope they dont cause too much grief :)
Oh ****! 
oh.. did u think i was? 
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oh.. did u think i was? :(
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No, but it'd lessen your chances of marrying outside your sect.
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No, but it'd lessen your chances of marrying outside your sect.
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oh bummer... and i had such high hopes...
i should be worried.. my chances of within the sect are diminishing as well..
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oh bummer... and i had such high hopes...
i should be worried.. my chances of within the sect are diminishing as well..
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Gawd! don't worry though, just wrap yourself up in a burka and Nakab, and propose a Molvi.
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Gawd! don't worry though, just wrap yourself up in a burka and Nakab, and propose a Molvi.
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wouldnt the molvi write a fatwa against me for approaching a male?
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wouldnt the molvi write a fatwa against me for approaching a male?
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The fatwa is when you approach OTHER males yaar! No Molvi would mind being approached by a girl.
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The fatwa is when you approach OTHER males yaar! No Molvi would mind being approached by a girl.
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oh... i dunno bout molvis in paki.. but religious men here scare me.. well the ones from the tabligh... they certainly know how to make u feel dirty... i know its their way of giving respect.. but it just doesnt look right
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oh... i dunno bout molvis in paki.. but religious men here scare me.. well the ones from the tabligh... they certainly know how to make u feel dirty
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Thats called 'playing upon people's guilt'.
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Thats called 'playing upon people's guilt'.
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is that a good thing or a bad thing?
Usually bad. Especially if its like, 'You have committed sins, you are a filthy sinner, now give me Rs. 300 to feed 60 poor men, and then your sins will be forgiven!' Or like 'You are filthy sinners and you are unislamic and drink Pepsi, that is why America calls us terrorists. Vote for us, we'll implement Islam and get you out of the mess.'
well personally i think its not a problem even if you marry out side the religion forget sect but it happened not so while ago to a friend here in india.
this sunni guy was in love with a shia muslim girl and when the girls parents came to know of it they got her married to a shia man much almost 15 years elder to the girl within 4 days