Would you marry a girl who has had boyfriends in the past?

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Tt's the first post of mine that makes sense to YOU :p

That's pretty sad..

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Thank You that you clarified :)

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i didnt use second pronoun. :zobo:

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If you would use that to judge then you are awfully ignorant...

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I feel sorry for you if you really believe this..

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^meh..he's probably a virgin... yet another reason to marry a non-virgin, lol!

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although I am against these "pre-marriage relationships' system but if past relationship is really a past relationship, then it will not bother me.

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I would not ask the guy any qns about his past gfs BUT I would like to know if he is a virgin.

However, I think every guy should ask a girl if she is a virgin before they wed. Don't want the truth surfacing after marriage. Will cause troubles.

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I wouldn't have a problem if they just dated BUT if it was sexual? Yeah, then I dont know how I'd handle that. I am extremely protective and territorial, and I would be devastated tbh if I found out or knew he wasn't a virgin. But then again, I'm sure if I loved him we could work it out.

That being said, I am very glad me and my fiance were and have always been on the same page and although I never had a boyfriend (another reason why I was so particular about being w/ a guy who didn't have prior history, at least not sexual one) he did date a girl in HS which annoyed me at first, lol, but it's HS and it helped that they never kissed, ahem. Oh and the little girls he kissed during school, I call them "choti churailay" to make fun of him. Other than that, thats pretty much it so I am very thankful for that.

But all that aside, I would marry a girl (if I was a guy) or a guy had they had past relationships, nothing you can work out and people change.

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nobody can tell there is a damage or not well i dont think any one would use microscope to find da damage lololol

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Salam. Actually its very complex topic to cover in few words, no one can conclude in few lines or paras even.
Everybody in this world (male/ female) has a past, where he has committed good and bad deeds. In Holy Quran it is said by Allah (Insan ko Kamzor Peda Kya Gaya Hay). If you find your wife had a relation with someone, so before raising your finger on her, first see yours past? you might be too involved with someone, may be more closer than your wife. But if you think that you were not so then make it clear to your wife that whatever your past was, that was past. now you are with me and you are mine. I think that if she belong to good family she would forget everything about her past and wil be honest with you. but you should even try to know the complete story about her past.

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:smack:

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and pardon my ignorance but how come you tell a guy is not virgin ?

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You can't. You can't even be sure if a girl's a virgin.

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For either sex there's no sure way to tell if someone has lost their virginity.. Being able to tell is just something some ppl would like to believe is true..

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I would not give a chance to a man who isn't a virgin - that would haunt me for life.

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To those who would never consider a non-virgin what would you do if you found out after marriage? I mean if they admitted it themselves or an ex did..

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^divorce....That's something i can't stand.

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Sane people will just let it be. I can't say about the others...

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You can tell. and since this is a family-friendly forum, I won't go into detail. but its not impossible to tell