My first post on these forums and it is a question to all the guys out there. Ladies can chime in with their opinions too. Let me expand on the question. A lot of you will disagree but the truth is that most unmarried couples out there have an intimate relationship, and very rarely do they end up marrying each other. So will you guys marry a girl who has had boyfriend(s) in her past? What if you find out after the marriage that your wife has had romantic affairs in the past? Or worst, what if you find out that your wife has had intimate relationship(s) in the past?
And the same question goes out to the ladies too about their husbands’ past.
Re: Would you marry a girl who has had boyfriends in the past?
Would I want a girl to marry me if I have past relationships: YES
Am I a hypocrite: NO
There's your answer :)
Ofcourse the guy in question never had pre-marital intimate affairs before. Oh and great internet cred you just gained by your post, sure looks righteous, let's hope you think like that IRL too.
Re: Would you marry a girl who has had boyfriends in the past?
Ofcourse the guy in question never had pre-marital romantic affairs before. Oh and great internet cred you just gained by your post, sure looks righteous, let's hope you think like that IRL too.
Yes, I do. And if you stay on GS long enough, you will better understand what views I have.
Re: Would you marry a girl who has had boyfriends in the past?
Yes, I do. And if you stay on GS long enough, you will better understand what views I have.
And yet another internet noble man. I am too so let me rephrase my question, why would I lie on the internet, right? So here goes. I never had any affair with any girl in the past. No I am married and I find out about my wife's past physical relationship. Being a self righteous noble man like you good sir, what should I do?
Re: Would you marry a girl who has had boyfriends in the past?
I don't care about his past relationships...what I do care about is his present state of mind and how his past has affected it.
The only useful reply so far. Thank you Reha
Re: Would you marry a girl who has had boyfriends in the past?
Its better not to ask about the past. Its good for both parties if they don't go in past its more about future. A friend of mine said in today's time if you can get one who has only done just kiss wiss be happy but if she has both kiss kiss bang bang than its your luck. If i am getting married ill never ask her about the past relations.
Re: Would you marry a girl who has had boyfriends in the past?
No I am married and I find out about my wife's past physical relationship. Being a self righteous noble man like you good sir, what should I do?
It will definitely annoy you, but if your wife is really working hard and want to stay with you, then you should forgive her.
Does she also ashamed of her past intimacy? If yes, then dont use it as tool to pressurize her.
In another case, if you found out that your fiance had intimate relationship then I would suggest you to run away.
