Would you live with your in-laws or separately?

[GoriLady]

Re: Would you live with your in-laws or separately?

@Maham S

Acha. I dont think what yr mil does is right, far from it. BUT what i want to ask you is that dont most of us go thru the same when we are at our parent’s home? there r certain restrictions that dont make sense to us but we have to follow them. Howcome doing that doesnt make us want to move away from them but when it comes to the inlaws all this becomes the highlight of yr life?!. Do u realise maybe if u lived with them they wud also get use to of yr lifestyle n wont act as shocked as perhaps they do now.

Maham- I think with our own parents, we feel more comfortable to disagree with them, to contradict them and to tell them flat out when they’re wrong. Nothing can break the parent/child bond. When we’re dealing with our parents in law, it is much harder. We feel awkward disagreeing with them and we fear that if we disobey, they’ll resent us forever. I think that is the main difference.