Would you live with your in-laws or separately?

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Re: Would you live with your in-laws or separately?

@Maham S

Acha. I dont think what yr mil does is right, far from it. BUT what i want to ask you is that dont most of us go thru the same when we are at our parent’s home? there r certain restrictions that dont make sense to us but we have to follow them. Howcome doing that doesnt make us want to move away from them but when it comes to the inlaws all this becomes the highlight of yr life?!. Do u realise maybe if u lived with them they wud also get use to of yr lifestyle n wont act as shocked as perhaps they do now.

Yes you are right in that matter but with our parents they set rules and boundaries of course but they also give each son/daughter enough freedom to live their life the way they see right. They don’t restrict on what clothes to wear providing they are not too overly revealing of course, eating schedules, they allow expression of self whereas if you try to express yourself at the inlaws then MIL will tell you do this, or do that, and making sure that you follow her routine. If you step even a little out of line then tensions escalate and the home becomes unhappy and not a place to live in