Would you let your kids have a 'relationship' before marriage?

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Re: Would you let your kids have a ‘relationship’ before marriage?

@Khumar

how would you mature parents even know your kids are dating? seeing from your own generation and group of people you hang out with now, do you really expect your kids to be satti savatris and mr. gentleman and wait for their parents to set them up once they turn 21-whatever age? instead of creating an outright ban, shouldn’t it be better to talk to the kids and tell them look, here is the deal. this is what i’ve planned for you, what do you think. then you can put on the burka on them and ban dating if they don’t abide.

Nailed it!!