Would you let your husband..

[strangeworld]

Re: Would you let your husband..

@Deeba1234

^You need to grow up.. You’re obviously not married and very immature going by the words above..

Marriage is about compromise on BOTH sides.. hence husband and wife being described as “garments” for each other.. The husband has rights over the wife and she also has rights over him..

If you’re going to mention Allah in your post you should have refrained from the personal comments above, esp as you know nothing about me or my husband in our personal lives.. I respect my husband fine thanks and he knows that.. After all he CHOSE to marry me..

I need to grow up, how cute Well it’s funny you bold the word “compromise” when you need to understand the meaning of it. I suggest you google

As far as Islam is concerned please study this topic in detail husband’s right over his wife and wife rights over her husband.

Marriage is not a rocket science that I won’t know anything about it unless I’m not married myself. Alhamdulillah I know enough in that regard and which is something women don’t find nice and that’s what happened here.

If you guys are happy together I wish you more happiness and blessings and I don’t think there’s a need to know about your personal life here we’re only discussing over the topic and you again saying “he CHOSE to marry you” lol.

Were you absent when that happened? Or it was only his will and you were being forced into that marriage?

Let me try to explain what compromise means in a married life.

Compromise mean when you scarify/give away/act or do something you weren’t comfortable/feeling easy/happy doing/giving away or scarify in full or partial for a person you’re married to in order to make that person happy knowing the fact he’d do the same for you.

In your last message you said and I’m quoting "I would change/alter my look IF it was something I also wanted, if I didn’t I wouldn’t bother.. it’s as simple as that.. I wouldn’t ask him to change or do anything he wouldn’t feel comfortable with either.. "

Now it’s beautiful how you did justice right there by saying you don’t ask him to change or do anything he wouldn’t be feeling comfortable doing either. Which also means if he does something then you gonna do otherwise there’s nothing he can expect. So in other words it’s a trade show or a game for you

Now if you won’t do anything you didn’t want is not a compromise rather the opposite to it. And every time you ask him to take you out somewhere or anything like that and despite the fact he’s not feeling like doing it but still does that is a compromise. So compromise isn’t something you didn’t do because you didn’t want or feel like doing and you never asked him to do either because you thought he wouldn’t like to do that as well.

Now you gonna say you do a lot of things on daily basis you didn’t want to do but still you do for him. And that’s the discussion I don’t want to start.

I’m sorry if I offended you because it seems like that to me but once again stay blessed nothing personal here