Would you let your husband..

Lifestyle Relationships
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…dress you or advise a makeover?

Like Kanye & Kim :smiley:

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No.

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would you prefer or advise what to dress to your husband ?

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Oh anything that can make them look pretty . . . ANYTHING . . . phaleeeezzzz . . .

:rotfl:

j/k

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Nah, I wouldn't personally..

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Nope, and I can't understand women who set out clothes for their husband every morning. Weird.

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I have occasionally asked what dress is nicer and he sometimes asks what he should wear if we're going to a wedding or formal occasion. But that doesn't count does it? Day to day we wear what we want. I've bought him shirts and t-shirts etc. Does that count?

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I do the shopping at home, buy the clothes for him and the kids. Have been doing that ever since we got engaged so I guess I “decide” what he wears :stuck_out_tongue: I prefer my man to be well dressed and he works in an environment which demands formal dressing so that’s just :wub: I’m particular about my own dressing and like someone mentioned, I ask for his input if we are going for a party/dawat/etc. If he doesn’t like something for XX reason, I don’t wear it.

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My husband doesn't go shopping without me and always asks my opinion when he tries on clothes/shoes. If I tell him that I don't like something, he doesn't buy it.

Similarly, when I buy something (shoes and clothes), I would say about 90% of the time I try it on and ask for his opinion. If he says that he really hates it, I don't buy it or return it. Unless I'm buying something classic/stable for work like a black sheath dress or nude pumps....I generally ask his opinion.

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Giving his/her opinion and offering input is fine and normal I think, we all tend to do that..

Would anyone have their partner actually pick out what they'll be wearing or change their overall style/look for them? (For ex if they asked you to change your hairstyle or wear all black)

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That would be a scene from Sleeping with the Enemy.

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nah.

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cringe. pure cringe.

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Would you let your husband

I apologise, but I suggest to go another by.

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Sure, why not! You are suppose to look attractive to each other, no?!

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^What if it was something very drastic? Like stop wearing colour (actually came across that once) or completely change your hairstyle?

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What’s wrong in doing that Deeba1234? I’m assuming you’re a woman.

What about the part where women let their husbands wear something really normal so no other woman would look at them? Or you never heard of that? :smiley:

When a husband asks his wife to do some drastic changes in her style it simply means he’s bored of her current/old look :stuck_out_tongue: So make your man happy and do what he wants or else he knows where to go and get it.

These things are cues I believe in the most honest possible way. He’s mentioning a psychological state where he felt himself having candle light dinner with a fairy having straight golden hairs I love those by the way :stuck_out_tongue: But in real life he might have seen a girl in certain hair style or dress when he was coming back home or when he was out with friends or when at work and he felt like dancing.

But on serious note he’s talking to you indirectly and unconsciously by not saying the part that he saw a girl wearing something or having a particular hairstyle which he really liked and he wants you to do the same because he liked that or else he’s bored of you.

I’m not married but that’s why I believe guys say stuff like that because you’ve stopped putting effort on yourself for him. Guys are the most visual thing in the world just never forget that. Even though the wife is doing her best for the home and him she has to be sexy, attractive and someone her husband feels the urge to go close to. If he’s not coming near you lately or asking you to change something you should be mature enough to understand where he might be unknowingly going.

Also if you go to Islam and seek the answer there, you’d come to know that whatever your husband desires in you which is not haram in Islam you’re suppose to do that no matter what unless you’re on a dying bed or had broken ribs or something.

I assume it wasn’t that serious kind of questions and apologizes if I moved away from the topic :slight_smile:

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Well he got what he wanted when he married me, didn’t he.. and no he hasn’t asked me to change..

I would change/alter my look IF it was something I also wanted, if I didn’t I wouldn’t bother.. it’s as simple as that.. I wouldn’t ask him to change or do anything he wouldn’t feel comfortable with either..

And talking of Islam I doubt that’s meant to be taken so literally.. What if he wants me to stand on one leg ALL day? You know cause it makes him happy and isn’t against our religion ..

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If its a color i really liked then yes i wouldn’t stop! I, however, could try wear less of it. And same goes for the hairstyle if i don’t feel comfortable with it i wouldn’t get it done just to please him. Lack of confidence in carrying something can make anything and anyone look bad. I am sure a good husband/wife wouldnt want that for their spouse.