Re: would you feel uncomfortable if...
Mabrook, have u actually asked your kids how they feel about this? Ask them if they want to do it, they will probably say no. Then tell them that it is ok for them to express it to their granparents / aunties or whoever. Tell them that it is their decision and sometimes they haave to be strong in replying. Make sure that they don't pin it on u when they do say no tho ("Mummy said to tell u NO!")