Would you dress sexy for your spouse?

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Will you dress sexy for your spouse? Do you think its wrong or unislamic to do so?

If you do dress up, will it be for their eyes only or in public as well?

Do you think doing such things fosters the relationships or harms it?

Will you want your spouse to look/dress sexy for you?

If you gained weight will you stop (if you initially do so)?

What if you live with in-laws? Would you dress sexy infront of them or confine it to the bedroom?

This came up during a conversation I had with someone.

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ANyone who thinks looking nice for thier husband or dressing up for him is haram is just sad.. and if htey think its pointless n stupid for THEM to do it well who cares.. and if they think its pointless and stupid for OTHERS, well they can go fk themselves :mad:

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yes i will and mostly for her eyes only. don't think many ppl will too far to dress sexy in the public for their spouses. also don't think its unislamic/haram to dress sexy to please your spouse. if others think its wrong/unislamic then either they should just mind their own business or learn a bit more about islam in this regard. i personally don't give a damn abt wht others think. if i'm obligated to fullfill the personal expectations of some1 then thats my parents and then my wife [as long as they are realistic and reasonable], not people. so ppl can go n jump off niagra falls while i dress sexy for my wife and make her happy. :P

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Sara, what brought that on. :rolleyes:

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I really don’t understand what can be un-Islamic about dressing up for husband/wife ??

I personally would do both, but it would just be different.. u don wanna be a sloppy pig in public, spouse or no spouse.. in private, esp the first few months/yrs I guess, u wanna look xtra sexy :blush: I’d walk around th ehouse wearing tank tops, shorts, miniskirts etc etc (kinda already to that anyway).. Outside the home is different, I’d cover up n all…

I dunno abt the fostering/harming the relationship.. obviously he loves you for you and its more than just a physical/sex thinjg, warna why wud he have married u?? Why wud it be such a “harm”? Why wud any woman consider it so bad or shameful tha ther husband finds her sexy and beautiful??? It doesnt make sense…

I would want him to take care of his appearance, and if he doesnt mind, i’d love to pick out his clothes :biggthumb

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WHat brought what on?? If it was what I said well its true.. its one thing if u dont want to do something for ur own reasons, but if u look down on others for doin th same things, esp if it has nothin to do wit islam, n they r in fact in religious boundaries, then who the hell cares… desis (and others) are jsut wayyyyyy too nosy and intoother ppls bzness, esp about personal stuff like sex n intimacy, that so and so does this omg shes so nasty ndisgusting :eek: etc etc

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**I would definately dress “sexy” for my spouse. :halo: **

**I can see how some people might not do it in public, but I don’t understand how can it possibly be “UnIslamic” to dress sexy for your spouse inside the house. :confused: **

**Personally, I think it helps the relationship b/c it will help keep the “spark” or “romance” or whatever else you want to call it in the relationship. **

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i will wear a dress for her, if she is into that kinda stuff :bummer:

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why not?....they say...a successful relationship requires falling in love many times....with the same person.....i really feel sad for those people who start taking their spouses for granted.....they don't know what they are missing....i would definitely try to make it exciting....dressin sexy....candle light dinners (jus two of us)...soft music followed by a dance....ticklin n teasin etc....these sweet little things spice up the marriage n make a lot of difference!....you feel more like a girlfriend/boyfriend living together than a husband/wife....

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There's nothing unislamic about dressing up for one's spouse.

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So for example theres a woman in a tube-top and short-shorts. You find your husband finds this sexy. Do you wear it? Are you “degrading” yourself by doing this? Is this considered sexy to you?

If you live with aunty and uncle, do you confine the tube top to just your bedroom? Can you wear the tube-top with jeans infront of Auntie or is that not acceptable?

I hope you get the gist. smile

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^ Munni in what universe is looking sexy for ur husband degrading, yeh toh batao ??

Not walkin around in front of inlaws looking like that is a given..

I feel sorry for any woman who has hang-ups about dressing up/getting nude for herown husband.. :no:

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If both the wife and husband find such clothing pleasing then how could it be degrading or unacceptable?

Both husband and wife (men and women) are to cover their awrah in front of others except when in the company of each other alone. Therefore, you'd have to dress in a manner that's appropriate Islamically when living with in-laws or other relatives.

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I dress up saxxy for my hubby all the time!!! Why not??? Why would dressing up sexy degrade the relationship??? So, by being intimate with your spouse inside your home is degrading??? :smack:
This is the reason you are husband and wife. It is all legal, Munni!

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I’ve heard that even spouses shouldn’t look at each other naked.. even have a sheet over their bodies whil having sex.. :no:

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Where did you read/hear that Sara????

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Sara516, I'm sorry, but there's no such thing.

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**Will you dress sexy for your spouse? Do you think its wrong or unislamic to do so?**Yes. No, I do not.

**If you do dress up, will it be for their eyes only or in public as well?**For his eyes only.

Do you think doing such things fosters the relationships or harms it? I think it fosters good relationships unless one or the other feels uncomfortable. If you feel your spouse is making you do something you are uncomfortable with, it takes away trust from the relationship. Both should be understanding of the others needs and desires and insecurities.

Will you want your spouse to look/dress sexy for you? I think he looks sexy in anything, so it really doesn’t matter. But I especially like him in glasses, and he thinks that’s funny.

If you gained weight will you stop (if you initially do so)? I’d find something that makes me feel sexy without emphasizing the fat :smiley:

What if you live with in-laws? Would you dress sexy infront of them or confine it to the bedroom? What a question! Confined to the bedroom of course.

:smooth:

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Mahru, I opened a thread in religion abt a yr ago or so, askin if its “haram” to be nude :bummer: and ppl started talkin abotu jinns and how u canteven be totally naked during sex, coz of jinns.. :konfused:

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