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September 19, 2012, 9:11am
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Re: Would you consider this controlling behavior? Is this love? I want to leave so ba
Thank You Guys!
I am glad to know that Peoples are so “RESPECTFUL” And they really know how to give ,An expression of respect of deference; regards; as, to send ones respects to another.***
Marriages are complex relationships that involve many factors from children, work and even family. People often make mistakes that can lead to devastating consequences. Here are three of the main mistakes that couples make***
1 Wanting to be understood before seeking to understand.***
Many couples start off with this problem. They want to express their feelings and be understood without letting the other person do the same. ***It is important that you take the time to listen as well. Your partner needs to be understood and heard just as much as you do and it is incredibly selfish to not allow them that when you yourself would like to be given that courtesy.
2 Lack of communication.***
Getting caught up in life is one of the main problems to over come with communication. Some of us lead lives that are so busy we rarely have time for our loved ones and when there are kids involved, we tend to give any free time we have to ensure that they have the life they deserve. But it is important to find the time to talk to each other. Ask how their day was, or anything that might be bothering them. Listen and then share your own experiences.***
3 Not spending enough time together.***
Finding time to bond and share experiences together is crucial to keeping a marriage together. After all, this is the reason you got married in the first place. By not spending time together, you end up growing apart and finding other people to spend time with which can lead to infidelity and distance between couples.***
***AND WHAT IS THE CASE OF THIS LADY? ***
She didn,t share evrything .. She only told those things which make peoples pity on her , Because she is confuse to taking decision .She finding help from some opinion which make her to be saparated.***
We don’t have right to give very poor suggestion to peoples which increase trouble in couple and ESPEACILLY WE DON,T HAVE TO RIGHT MAKE OPINION FOR PEOPLES WHOME WE DIDN’T LISTEN TO YET. Yes I am talking about her husband. I believe that positive thinking human functioning will arise, which achieves a scientific understanding and effective interventions to build thriving individuals, families, and communities.***
You are absolutely right in that understanding, communication and spending time is important in a healthy relationship. What I disagree on is that this advice fits the situation as this is no healthy marriage and a womans life is in danger!