ermm...we already know about the islamic views..
but were just asking about your feelings.
d*ont ladies ever feel the one-sided 4 wife rule is kinda unfair or harsh..*.
i mean then if you were an ideal muslima u wudnt prefer to adopt a child, nor divorce, nor an additional mariage nor the artificail fertilization thing...then dont you think its kind of unfair having to remain childless.
dobt ladies feel thier shud be some exception granted in such cases.
that would be a topic for another thead....we have numerous discussions on this :D
p.s I dont think its unfair...I would simply deal with the cards I was dealt. there are other options...take em and run with it.