Would you be okay with letting you fiancee go clubbing without you

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Re: Would you be okay with letting you fiancee go clubbing without you

@Paheli00

Well, since you have not been to any night clubs in Vegas and I’m not sure if you’ve been to any other night clubs in the U.S., allow me to clarify something…night clubs don’t have topless women dancing in tables while men throw dollar bills at them. That is a strip club and yes, there is a BIG difference.

As for my husband looking at “scantily dressed women”…he does not need to be in a nightclub for that. In the U.S., especially in the South, during the summer plenty of women walk around practically naked with super short shorts and barely there tops. We’ve also gone to many beaches where women in string bikinis walk around in the beach, hotel/resort pool etc. On the flip side, I’ve also seen my share of men in swim trunks only…quite a few even in speedos which doesn’t leave much to the imagination (and may I add many of these men have been super hot!). If I really had an issue with my husband looking at/being near scantily dressed women, him going to a Vegas nightclub is the lease of my problem then! We’d have to move out of the U.S. and never ever go to a beachy vacation!

@soconfused

scantly dressed does not = topless.

go to a beach in California and you’ll see women wearing things worse. Heck, go MOST places on the weekend (restaurants, etc) and you’ll see women wearing worse.

strip clubs do have topless women. And that’s a whole different story. I would never go to one and would never let my SO go to one either. Strip clubs you go to ogle at naked women; clubs are more for socializing/dancing. I’m not saying that clubs are halal but there’s a huge difference.

One doesn’t even need to go out to see naked or half naked women, people can see them on internet, tv or smart phones. WHat I wanted to point out is that businesses that rely on sexual objectification of women are not fine with “conservative” people. Vegas is hotbed of an industry that relies on it, I don’t think lot of conservative muslims will be happy contributing their dollars to it.

Going to nighclubs doesn’t mean cheating, I have heard a lot of western women saying they are fine with their husbands going to strip clubs and have lap dances, since those women are not trying to “steal” their husbands, are only to make some quick bucks, I take it more like endorsing an environment.