Hey guys,
I recently got engaged and planning to get married soon. My fiancee has never went clubbing before but she said its something she would like to experience. I had no problems with this and suggested we will both go together.
She has now suggested to me that for her bachelorette party she would like to go to her with her friends at a club. Can you guys give me your opinion if that is something you would be okay with your significant other doing.
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I would never be okay with my fiance/husband going to clubs.
Isn’t it better for her to throw a party for her and her friends instead of going clubbing?
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If you need others to tell you what to do in this situation and you do not know what is the right thing to do then you are not matured enough to get married.
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You both are not my kind of people, she.. for suggestion .. you.. for thinking over it. 
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I asked for your opinion, not your personal attack against my maturity level. For the record, I am completely against the idea, I asked only to see if majority or minority of individuals agree with me or not with their reasons of why or why not.
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I promise its not an attack. Its quick way to make point.
I would consider this girl a trouble(at least for my self.)
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Sorry Monk that reply was not aimed at you, it was for Mirch. But, thanks for giving me your opinion as well.
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Is Monk creating trouble again
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Did you ask her why she wants to experience it? There are other ways to celebrate the occasion, so I’m curious as to her reasons. If it were me, it would make me uncomfortable. I’ve never been in a club. I wouldn’t want to go to a club with my SO or even without him as I’m not drawn to such scenes. I think it would me more worrying if your partner is in the habit of going to clubs…as that would make me think that they haven’t got some things out of their system yet. But based on your post, this appears to be her first time. How do you plan to approach the matter with her? If both of you are on the same page in terms of religion, lifestyle and priorities…if you have a good thing going with her…try to be tactful/careful in your approach. I don’t approve of the club scene but there’s a difference between someone who does it once and then never again…and someone who is in the habit of frequenting them.
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I gave you my opinion and you have the right to not agree with it. It is not called personal attack it is called dose of reality. You do not need agreement or approval of majority to do the right thing. If you know what the right thing is then you do not have to go ask anybody and in this case it is not so difficult to find out what the right thing is.
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lol, you know what happens at bachelor/bachellorette parties right? Bad idea if you ask me, although you should get the boys together and go spearmint Rhino yourself. What’s good for the gander…
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Loog itni tarfreeAAN kertay phir rahey hain and only club I am allowed to go even near to is Golf Club 
Restored attachments:
Find a small closet. Add flickering light bulb. Add sweaty people. Insanely loud music.
DIY Club Experience. Ur happy and she’s happy.
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and make sure you tumble of things after drinking leeemo-pani like drunks
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Idk Op, I understand that she wants to experience clubbing (although I may not agree with it) but the red flag I see is why does she insist on going only with her friends? Do you know these people? What kind of influence do they have on her?
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it IS a bachelorette party. naturaly she will.go with her friends.
if it makes you umcomfy, just ask her to do it elsewhere and leave clubbing to be an exp both of you share.
it doesnt matter what any of us thinks. this board has ppl from all walks of life on it.. some will agree, some will disagree .. will not make any diff…
it really boils down to what you think and how this situation makes you feel. simple
and can i just add that clubbing doesnt always mean what they show in the movies. club itself and the ppl involved play a big part as to how the night will go down.
seriousy ppl, grow up.
and OP.. if you still want opinions, mine would be, trust your fiancee. she must have some form of smartness in her that is making you marry her right? have faith in her judgement and let her be.
but if you sense that her crowd of friends arent to be trusted etc… or still feel odd about her going, then just talk to her.
i do not see the big deal.
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If she’s never been clubbing and wants to go now that she’s engaged… I don’t get it.
why didn’t she go before she was engaged? why wait until now? is it the whole “oh im getting married so i have freedom now?”
If your not okay with it then just let her know. After all your going to be spending the rest of your lives together and this may cause a dispute between you guys somewhere down the road. Just be open with her. Then it’s her choice tbh. Don’t force her to do anything.
I personally wouldn’t let her go if i was you.
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If it wasn’t a bachelorette I’d have said of course you should be with her.. If there are going to be no guys in the group then maybe a “compromise” could be a sister or cousin of yours going along to keep an eye on things..
I wouldn’t want my other half going without me but this is slightly different..
I can sort of understand her wanting to do it even if I don’t necessarily agree with it..
