Would you allow your daughter to date?

So I got bitched at for saying yes to this question. I told this chick that I would let my daughter date if she is responsible, mature and I approve of the guy. She gave me the whole nine yards on Islam and culture. Ironically enough I am meeting her this weekend for coffee. Don’t you think same rules should apply on you as you would force on your children?

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Maybe she doesn't think it's a date. Fayz, you better return that gift and flowers.

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Maybe you are right..I think a double double at Tim's drive through would do

Answer the question. Would you?

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^ I was going to say the same. Maybe she's thinking of the fun-only kind of dating?

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CB would you date a nice little boy named queer?

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Fayz, :snooty:

I’ve never ‘dated’ myself, so I don’t know if I’d be comfortable with my daugher dating on her own. If I knew the guy and approved of him, I think I’d be ok with it.

queer, I don’t date little boys. :nono:

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no way...why should the same rules apply?.....if she is dating, then thats becoz she prefers her own choice to her parents......if she tomorrow wants to stop her daughter from dating,thats coz she again prefers her own choice than her daugter's...u can use Islam when u want to, who can say its wrong?

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CB CB will you na date me na... :) :) :)

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I think as long as she is meeting you in a Public place she is not doing any thing wrong, and if she wants this for her children as well I don’t see anything wrong in that as well.

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maybe.. if they are old enough (read 25/26 years old :D), mature enough to understand what is right and wrong, within the limits, and only if i approve of their "date".

forget it, i am buying my daughter a burkah n she is staying home with me, infront of my eyes. not because i won't trust my daughter with her decisions.. i just don't think i can trust the world around her.

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^ yeah thats what they all say.

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for sure

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No real problem with it. They can have sex for all I care as long as the boyfriend knows how to wear a condom and are mindful of all that jazz about STD's and stuff.

[And she is above 16]

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ma mooli : well can u blame them? with all the negativities that is being shown on tv/news, like date rape, kidnapping, molestation, drugs.. i'd need a big DIL GURDA to send my daughter out like that with anyone. its always easy to think that THIS can never happen to one of ur own, till it does, better be safe than sorry?

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Bloody hell, when did this happen? When did hate turn into love?

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nope.

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suroor,

I am so disappointed in you. That is not the kind of response I was expecting. I was hoping for something along the lines of:

beta tum meri baitay say pehlay shadi kar lo then date her to your heart’s content.

I was wrong about you suroor!!!

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Yes, you can blame them. They are being overtly protective. Just because there are tonnes of assholes in the world doesn't mean there aren't millions of nice, caring, friendly, sexy, likeable dudes out there too.

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LI,

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beta tum meri baitay say pehlay shadi kar lo then date her to your heart's content...
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LOL!

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suroor: are you planning to follow your kid to school aswell? cause the big bad world will always be there you know.