would u wear hijab and abaya for spouse?

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re: would u wear hijab and abaya for spouse?

Since this thread is by nadz and about nadz, what I want to know is why two so different people thought getting married would be a good idea. She knew that he was conservative and would probably have these sorts of requirements. He must have known that she wasn’t very religious, so why think that you can change someone or that they are just going to do whatever you say.

What irks me is if he is not actually concerned about the other important aspects of her faith. This isn’t the first time she’s posted that he wants her to cover up. What about her prayer, fasting, etc?

So it seems to be it is more about ego and control and less about guiding nadz towards Islam.

On a separate note, his request for her to cover up where they live in Paksitan is justified I feel.

I’m basing my opinion on this post from last year.. assuming nothing has drastically changed.

@nadz123

esp, when your as religious as an atheist…sorry bit extreme, but my husband wants us to create a religious mahol, especially if we be living the SATANIC WEST, ( hes paranoid), and wants this kind of environment esp from me. as im the mother of our 2 girls.now problem is.,IM NOT RELIGIOUS.yes i believe in islam, i am muslim. etc etc. but namaz…- dont do it, ramadan-hardly did it- etc etc , and i have no fear…i pray that Allah gives the hadayat soon, to atleast pray namaz, but so far, im zilch. i wish i was more religious. and ive spoken to hubby and told him im trying but namaz to me is like a chore for me. once i complete it, im relieved of it…yet i do believe in it. hes supprtive, but he cant make me do it. i need to. so any advice…i dnt want my girls growing up without religion, i dnt want to be a too-liberalised mum.