the strangest thing that has to happen… someone did not like my true name. liked everything about me. and so i let the rishta go?
does it happen, that people are so choosy, they want to either “rename” you to their own liking or can leave a good rishta
d i s c u s s
for me, it is a seriously funny thing to have experienced. i can’t stop laughing on this guy and his parents’ brains & values.
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Well....to some ppl...it maybe nthing...but afterall,,...name is ur ID...tats how u r known all through ur life...changing it for some one who is thinking of stepping in ur life is ridiculous...and ppl telling or wanting you to do that are stupidest of all.......Coz if u try to change some one from what they r know to be...than its gona make things worse...one should try to accept and respect ppl for who they r ...anyways htis whole idea of changing one;s name for marriage sake just doesn;t make sense to me at all...
TC....
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Wow and I dint think desis cud get any lower...
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lollllllllllllllll....believe me its the beginning of getting lower for desiiiiiiii.........lolllllllll
TC....
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it just makes you think what type of ppl they were...
what exactly they didn't like about your name?? the meaning??
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what is your name? Or is it dushwari?
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If your real name is Dushwari, I am sure the guy will be thinking, Dushwari in life for me, better not have one.
If you didn't get my point, please ask.
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WOW, all I can say is you would be an idiot too if you renamed yourself...
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doesn't matter how stupid or idiotic it is, if it matters to someone then it is of value to them, atleast. whatever your real name is, if they are not comfortable with it then too bad. u don't have to change your name and they don't have to make u a part of their family. both parties happy and move on.
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I'd like to say that this is a boggus reason from a boggus person and therefore dont let petty reasons/people like these to get to you, if people do not like u for what u are then thats their problem not yours, everyone is different & that's what we have to remember, however a name is a form of identity not a report on your personality or outlook!!
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Some people also do some wierd matching of names with numbers or something like that. I think it some kind of Hindu thing that people in Pakistan are following now.
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Atleast some sensible post…
Names do effect ur personality and Prophet :saw: himself once said to a person to change his name because the meaning of his name wasn’t a good one… So if they r requesting u to change it due to the meaning of ur current name than i think it should not create so many adverse comments… definitely it depends on u…
Its ur right to accept their request or not… so this shouldn’t be made an issue.
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you guys are ASSUMING her name means something wrong, some people looking for rishtas are plain RETARDED and some of you are so offended by it because your parents are out there checking out girls and telling em they are too fat or too think or too kaali or their name doesnt sound right 
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dushwari = difficulty = problem.
Sara I thought u were living in PK now a days, shouldn't have a problem with this word.
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This would make sense if we are assuming they didn't actaully go to check out the girl. What would make it stupid and idiotic is if they came over to check out the girl despite knowing her name beforehand and then use it as an excuse to reject her. If they didn't like it to begin with, they should not go over to her home to see her in the first place ... and of course, I'm assuming they did check her out first, in which case it was wrong of them to give the rishta only to reject her.
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Sara I thought u were living in PK now a days, shouldn't have a problem with this word.
you THOUGHT?
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Najim, im back in US now :)
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does it happen, that people are so choosy, they want to either "rename" you to their own liking or can leave a good rishta
d i s c u s s
for me, it is a seriously funny thing to have experienced. i can't stop laughing on this guy and his parents' brains & values.
i can't believe it...............thats crazyyy but i guess some people are jus a*h........
i would jus tell them to f off....
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This is hilarious!