yep you cant, but then you also dont know for sure that whether you are victim or not.
i said that because we always separate ourselves from what we are than what we are made for?
Azmaish is connected to our souls.
ps. i hope you understand what i am trying to say.
So if I am a woman who is not so 'good looking' cause that is how Allah made me and my two cents worth husband started cheating on me and flirting with a more desirable woman, is that my fault, would that be my azmaaish?
which woman with self respect wants to be 'other woman' the' doosri aurat'. I bet shes in it for the money too.
Just for the argument sake, if a woman wins over someones husband, dont you think that would be a great boost to her self esteem. Lets not bring self resepct cause if the guy is sleeping with another woman, that does not say a lot about his self respect either