whenever I think of my friends, who had cheating/abusive dads, I feel bad that at one point, their moms were probably excited to plan their shaadis with these guys. And they were all charming, professional men, and no one would ever guess their character. Remembering these experience, makes me feel even more motivated to get a job.
People think it's about greed, or that I'm expecting my hubby to be crappy, but I feel it's just a personal form of insurance. No one drives planning to have a car accident, right? But we all know it does happen so we carry insurance. So I feel like keeping one foot in the job market, is like an insurance. Sometimes the policy doesn't cover enough, but it's worth having.