Would the Desi girls consider marrying an Desi International Student?

[Sehrysh]

@stoppit

^this is the thing, in my experience (fortunately) these marriages have worked out okay. this is gonna sound incredibly mean but there are a lot of girls who if they tried to find an equal partner in the UK, would end up with a pakistani chav. their parents do better finding a decent, educated, willing to work guy from pak. the girl compromises on the fact that he’s a fob and part of his decision isn’t based on her, rather the chance to stay here. the guys have their own compromises.

in fact, the dangerous ones (i’ve seen) have been when pakistani girls marry guys from here. i know two cases where the girl’s divorced their husbands as soon as they had citizenship.

as i said before, no one should rule out options and put people into pigeon holes.

if a person is truly happy alone than compromising, i’m all for that. but a lot don’t want to take a bash at life alone (working, being independent); they’d rather be married and be a wife. depends what one’s goals are in life.

I totally agree. You’ve got those girls out there who’ve barely passed through highschool with grand dreams of marrying a doctor or some other six-figure earning professional. Like some other poster said - what’s she bringing to the table that makes her a worthy partner?

Going back to the original point - having citizenship does not mean kai larki nai koi teer maar liya - she just has the good luck to be residing in one the desired countries. Entering into any relationship - the two must have complementary values and goals that go beyond the superficial attributes and make the two people compatible in the long run.

Koi kisi kai upar ehsan nahi karraha hai shaadi karkai - na larki, na na larka.