Would the Desi girls consider marrying an Desi International Student?

farhanyu · December 8, 2009, 10:15am

Here here…alla analysis X2, sachi mein, just wanted to add my few cents to the discussion, I have seen both side, ppl from our university marrying for love/staying abroad and end up seperating after short while or showing strange behaviours ; and ppl marrying girls from abroad(while studing/finishing school or working) and making exceptionally happy life and family.

I am in the later group alhamdo-lilah. Here is my story; I was citizen here, met my husband the first day at the university when he was supposdely a FOB we had a big group of friends, which incuded some of my cousins and one of my brothers, my friend then(now hubby) always liked me, I kind of liked his warm and friendly and intellegent personality never thought we will get married. We didn’t marry until we both finished uni, had good jobs, and took a while to convince our familes(because I am from pak he is indian muslim) so after 9 years from the time we met we got married. So a girl from NA/UK wagerah and guy raised in india/pakistan can work out if the priorties are straight.

Usually they guys who stay here for 4-5 yeras or longer, do turn out decent to marry. We can’t disregard their education/good stuff and focus on the fact that they don’t have ‘janat-ka-ticket’ i.e NA/european immigration/nationality tu they are worthless.

Marriage is a gamble any way you slice/dice it.

I can’t thank allah enough that my hubby turned out to be an absoutely wonderful husband and father. His family is amazing, we get along really well, my husband always wanted to be close to them and have his own business and help his dad to manage his businesses so after my hubby being here for 15 years ,we ended up moving to India to try out life there for a bit.

There are always challenges, our sweet lil story may seems easy/aww so cute, but we had some major issues/adjustments to go through, so nothing is free in this world, you have to work for it.

I would rather marry someone who has been here/done whatever here, than getting someone from pak, ‘bsdhgsvnkodfkjbghdflkjsov’ most of those guys turn out to be wierdos. All these kind of cases I have seen except couple ( I would say3/10) are not happy or together anymore.

What do u mean by “NA/european immigration/nationality tu they are worthless.”