to meet the girl’s father alone, while the rest of the family is gone for Umrah, & ask her daughter’s hand in marriage…?
I dont think its appropriate to actually.
I think the other family members have a say in this to so it s only correct if you would wait till they come back. ( what do a few weeks matter ? )
The family is not going to make it back, they will stay there forever, & to make the most of this oppurtunity, & avail the chance of meeting a person in Pakistan rather Saudi.
Well if the family isnt coming back whats stopping you?
Go and ask her dad, and take a shot I d say. Goodluck 
but dont forget to invite us on your wedding naa 
Thanks dutchie
I want more opinions please.
I agree with dp Malik
Go for it :k:
Dont let anything stop you
Its not a movie guys, darwaza zor se khola, andar daakhil hua, "oye abba, main teri tiii naal viyaan karne aayan oyee, kithay chupa ke rakh diti aa oyee...?" :)
Its like presenting yourself in front of the dad, regardless of his education or upbringing. Its the question of impressing her dad, by all means necessary, & I dont mean money or power, I mean skills & honesty. How do you go about it, what impressions would it have...?
Picture this - prae, just assume this 4 a sec, ur a girl's father, I come over to meet u in personal, & ur family has gone for Umrah & they will permanently be staying in Saudi. I come up to u & ask u for ur daughter's hand in marriage, how would u look at it...?
oh nice a roleplaying game 
ok on a more serious note now:
Well, I ll be honest with you. If you came allone, I would talk to you and want to know everything about you. frm your child hood till now
How you think, what you think and yes, most important , will you take good care of the bachi?
But I would also like to see your house, meet your parents, (have a dinner) and then I would discuss this with the wife AND the daughter on what she thinks of you.
But I think you know her already, but I d still ask again
Her dad wont be able to meet my parents, & that is a big time dilemna. Yes I'll take full responsibility of ur daughter, u have kept her like ur princess for 19 years, now I want to take full responsibility of ur daughter, I want to take care of her.
My house is in dubai, I can arrange for visa, but make it on ur own ticket, how does this sound prae, now its getting complicated isnt it...!!!
no, thats nothing but fair :k:
Untill the girl is married she s the parrents responsibility
So suppose she gets married in pak with you, then YOU will have to pay for her. ( this is I thnk what most parents will say)
And to be honest that would be most convienient , because its hard
AND expensive to bring the whole family to Dubai for marriage.
If your parents are in pakistan I would ask the wife th go and visit the parents :k:
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Her dad wont be able to meet my parents, & that is a big time dilemna. Yes I'll take full responsibility of ur daughter, u have kept her like ur princess for 19 years, now I want to take full responsibility of ur daughter, I want to take care of her.
My house is in dubai, I can arrange for visa, but make it on ur own ticket, how does this sound prae, now its getting complicated isnt it...!!!
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link him onto GS tell him ur ma1ik ,what father wouldnt want their daughter married to u.
would u marry me
Pakistan is out of the whole scenario dude, my friend told me this & I give it the 2 crore wali baat - he said, that in Pakistan it is easier to commit zina, & hard to ask a daughter’s hand in marriage…!
So keeping this in mind, the question of financial capability of bringing the entire family to Dubai, is also out of the question, as it requires, not only visas & tickets, but accommodation too.
Would it be appropriate, if I visited the girl’s dad, who would be visiting Dubai soon(which is a vague chance), or just visit him in Saudi or Pak. I reluctant about Saudi, because of the plain fact, that her elder sister(who is married), has been a pure biyatch in my case. I had an hour’s conversation on the cell with her in Pak(huge ass cell bill), yet she wasnt impressed, & I damn care but she would be a big time bitch in my relationship with her dad, coz this is what the girl says herself…!
Now Im vying 4 2 options, either wait for him to come to Dubai…remote chances…or go to Pakistan, another remote chance, or make it to Saudi…its just a 12 hour drive or a 3 hour flight from here…!
hahahahahahaha loser
Yes. Go ahead. All the best.
malk bahi my opion is that u should go and meet her father and if u want to impress his father then show off i mean just stay as a simple person. He will imress automatically :)
ALLAH app ko kamiyab kerey
Good Luck
The likelihood is that they wouldn’t say yay or nay there and then anyway so it might work in your favour to go and ask the father and test the waters. Sometimes it’s easier to win one person over and let them do the rest of the work for you rather than meeting them all at once which can be rather daunting.
Good luck.:k:
After reading the thread and all the replies, best of luck mal1k-
what other options do you have?