PCG - I dont know, what other options are viable, but here they are…there is 1% chance he might come over to Dubai - read - alone, for a business trip for a few days, & he would be going to Saudi pretty soon after Eid.
Do I have any other options pcg…
. Im a little confused, 
Xcellent pointer…thanks BC
sherni - thanks
Yeah dude go for it..whtcha waiting for..and if he creams you to the sidewalk..well..then you know my number 
Good Luck! :k:
^^ 
thanks lk
exactly.
As I see it you have two options:
Talk to her father. What is the worse he can do - ask you to get the hell out of his home? Okay, so the prospect of a smooth risthaa gone down the drain - and even then you have the option of eloping. And yeah yeah, its not realistic; BLAH BLAH BLAH. But you're an adult, and hopefully the girl is too - the two of you need to come to a concensus on your own then.
Not talk to her father. Okay, now what? Find another girl? Not ever know if this risthaa could have been actualized if you had just had enough guts to go up to her father.
And it seems its pretty much a fear of rejection from the father that's holding you back. I'm not a guy, so I can't even empathize. But I know as a girl, I'd want to impress the guy's parents a whole lot - before and after marriage. So this is a fear that everyone goes through. You think by dodging this situation and moving on to another girl will help you get away from that fear? You'll face it again in the next situation.
Then what?
And its not like her father does NOT want her getting married. He just doesn't want an inept bozo. So ask thyself. Are you an inept bozo?
And I always thought, all u did was delete posts & edit my replies, ur brilliant pcg...& no Im not puckering it up to u...!
The primal fear of rejection is probably holding me back, & this is what I have to overcome...I just asked myself this question after reading ur post...if I can survive a crash @ 200 & still live with fear everyday, y should I be afraid of her father...!
U have me on a roll gudia...
at your service.
:Salute:
dont over-do it...just be urself n good luck n then post your wedding pics :D
no yaar no need for posting, just send em to my email adress:
check my thread in cafe :halo:
good luck! :-)
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good luck! :-)
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suroor, dil se dua di hai, mujhe tau yehi andaza hota hai...thanks dear...!
sorry for the late reply - just got out - go for it man!!! follow your gut
Good luck bro:flower2:
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sorry for the late reply - just got out - go for it man!!! follow your gut
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shukar hai, ur aiteqaaf has safely completed...I was getting worried for u...
my guts have proven me right always, & I just did what I was supposed to do a long time back!
Pyari gudia & omair...check ur pm