Re: Would/have you told your spouse about previous relationships?
Thats exactly why we will never come to a conclusion because we’re on completely different wavelengths.
You are looking at it from a pros and cons perspective overlooking the moral aspect of it.
And I’m looking at it from an ethical and moral perspective regardless of the outcome (which I do believe will not be bad in this case).
So… yea… thats about it.
However, just for the sake of discussion, I do like the idea of reversing the situation - Should the girl be aware of the guys past relationship? Slept is a bit extreme - lets keep it simple - if the guy had a 6 month intimate relationship with another girl (I consider kissing intimate, I hope everyone else thinks the same, lol) would it be okay for him to lie about it? Would it be okay for him to tell his fiance that he has never been with another girl?
My answer is simple: She should know, he should be honest with her and tell her before they get married.
But for the rest of you, what do you think?