First: Well i am opting for the idea that Kashmiris should decide for themselfs what they want to do and Azaad Kashmir (Pakistan administred Kashmir) and Indian Occupied ( 
) Kashmir should be FREE is that too much to ask? I mean you know as wel as i know when people don’t want to live (majority i am talking about) under occupation then you cannot hold them forever, one day they will see freedom.
Well when Pakistani government did build a dam then lot of Kashmiris’ moved to England not Netherlands. Most people living in England are Kashmiris but you know they are so much integrated in Pakistani community and society that although they are Kashmiris they are called Pakistanis.
For example the ex-Prime minister of Pakistan has Kashmir background, the biggest actor of Pakistan has kashmiri background, the biggest news television and the biggest newspaper of Pakistan their ancesters are from Kashmir.
Sometimes jokingly i say: Pakistan should join Kashmir rather then other way around. I know there are people in Pakistan (even Kashmiris themselfs) who want Kashmir to be part of Pakistan but i don’t this India se yeah baat digest ho gi and nor should this happen.
If India lets go Kashmir then so should Pakistan do that. Simple as that.