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Maybe, but as far as I know, the roles in ther elationship are just liek the roles in a male/female relationship. I am assuming the mentality would be almost the same too.
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So what…At least the human can speak…And if the human came to you for advice regarding his/her relation to an animal, it would be lovely to sit down over a cup of tea and cookies and advice them about his or her relation with a beast…
Of course simply telling someone that such relations are forbidden in our faith and hence we can’t advice them is so two-faced…
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^^ advice is advice... what advice you give is entirely up to you...
what is your point
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My point is, you have to draw a line somewhere...
In some people the lines merge to a point where you can't tell what they stand for...In some cases they stand for nothing...
e.g. My line ends where my faith begins...My faith tells me homosexuality is forbidden...And those around me should know that so that they do not cross the line...I am not ashamed, not afraid, not hypocritical, not two-faced about letting anyone know that...
As a Muslim if someone came to me for advice about homosexual behaviour I would in very plain words tell them, that my faith abhors homosexuality and there is no advice I can give them...I won't even say sorry...
That's where I draw the line...
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Why is everyone so hard on lajjo, the baicahra is GSes poster boy for *camp*site happy.
Love for all, especially to lesbians.
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the line you draw is based on your opinions...
so I still don't understand why you are bringing goats into the picture here.
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^because goats are innocent and have not committed a sin by going against the nature and laws of Allah.
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^^ ???and????
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passionate both female lovers get pms... i dont even want to know how cranky they get lol...
I honestly felt bad for her i use to get disgusted by the thought of looking at lesbos. But you know they are humans Yeah its wrong in Islam and ofcourse i don't approve of it at all Astagfirullah but respecting them as humans.
khair i do agree with lajo..
so conclusion is i should keep myself out of this.. no wonder why i couldnt say much to her....
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Some people are so inherently unfriendly or ignorant that no one goes to them for advice, anyway. Whether they are hetrosexual issues or homosexual issues. So if you are one of those, there is no problem, as no one will come to you and you can stop reading any furter.
Some people are generally helpful in providing relationship advice to other people, however they are homophobic, and will be unhelpful for a homosexual person. Their view is either "get away from me, you sicko!", or "straighten up, before I talk to you!", or "you deserve what you get - hahaha". (ok, take out the "hahaha" portion, but you get the idea).
Some others don't agree with homosexual lifestyle, but believe that everyone is human. For them a relationship is a relationship, and since in a homosexual relationship, like in a heterosexual relationsip, you have two human beings involved, so the basic advice (communicate, evaluate, compromise, arbitrate etc) remains the same.
All others are gay.
Faisal, I think I fall in line with no.1 ...I like to be 1st ...always...
Shweety, goats dont ask for "special rights" and last I checked they did not want the tax payers to pay for their perverted lifestyle either...do you know of any goats that have become a burden on the society?
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well..... then tell lajawab not to use a goat example in a lesbian issue!
by the way i thought he was pro-lesbianism:(
and how are lesbians a burden on society? you desi guys just want more hetero women around to justify the rule of four:o
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Shweety, I cannot even handle one and you are talking about four....
G & L are a burden on society because they want the "medical coverage" extended to their special partners...guess who pays for that? Yes, you and me, not to mention that gays are at a higher risk of contracting HIV ....I wonder why? not really....
Now you know the rest of the story.
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^^ kyoon? Are gays and lesbos not paying taxes?
Who covers your medicals, i beta ya money from their taxes
Happy MadiGra
:chusni:
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LB, while i appreciate different perspective, but I rather not listen to view from "down under"..... any way, regarding your query about sickos working, yes they do work, however, the risk of them contracting HIV and me having to pay for the exubernat cost because of their "sicko" lifestyle is just plain wrong.
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Stop trying so hard...
Disingenuous, as the only defining trait of homosexual relations is the sex. Take that away, and you have a plain vanilla relationship.
I can be very good friends in a platonic way with people, where I can just as easily "communicate, evaluate, compromise, arbitrate", or whatever attribute you want to associate with a relationship.
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^ Lesbians are sooooooooo hottt!!!
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khair i do agree with lajo..
so conclusion is i should keep myself out of this.. no wonder why i couldnt say much to her....
I suppose no advice is better than bad advice...:)
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To guys who hate homosexuals... do you also hate Hindus and Buddhists? They are "kaffir" and a step worse then homosexuals.. right?
Kaleem, don't you think you should hate smokers with a passion too? they increase my insurance costs... because of their chosen lifestyle...
:D
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^^ add to that red meat eaters and overweight people. no more phajjay kay paaya for you people!
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Kaleem, don't you think you should hate smokers with a passion too? they increase my insurance costs... because of their chosen lifestyle... :D
I love it, when these so called "progressive" and mod muslims come up with logics such as above. Keep that logic intact when you appear in front of Allah.They defy Allah's rules and try to act cool.
I dont hate Hindus, buddhists or homos. . There is clearly a distinction in Islam regarding the homosexuals, that sick lifestyle is not approved. Go ahead declare yourself non-muslim and I will stop arguing with you regarding this.
Last I checked, I was paying for my own insurance. I dont ask for any one to contribute towards my health inusrance...