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tell her to give me a call or mail me, they need a couple therapy.
I m a psychiatrist/psychologist for lesbians :)
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All depends on how you act generally other people personal issues. Do you:
- Give best advice in your judgement and let go (not always the smartest thing)
- Give an advice that they want to hear and let them go
- Just ignore
- Push 'em till death ... that they have to do it your way or no way at all!
I am #3: My reasons - They have a brain and I have tiny one as well, if I can think of an obvious solution , then they are also aware of the solution as well(may not realise it though). You cannot make someone realize anyfin, you can only aware them of possible solutions. You have ur own life - live and let live
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guys you are not helping- i am known to be the psychologist of office. They do cometo me ask questions or talk about their spouses. I guess i am just talkative person they got no one else to talk too so they talk to me.
What should i tell this lesbo girl.. i have no clue and not many of you are helping... yar i am serious bechari ro rahi thi it was hilarious to hear Jacquline's name from Andrea :D
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faisal bhai you just called me baji... i so want azkhar chacha to ban you for 30 days ...
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I think this woman's relationship is like any other straight relationship. It's about mutual respect and communication. You can give her the same advice you'd give to anyone. She obviously doesn't seem happy with her partner. So maybe she should consider whether it's right for her to remain in the relationship. It's probably easier to move on when there's no divorce involved. Are there children involved?
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How can it be the same as a "straight" relationship. I am shocked that this rationalization of sicko lifestyle has permeated muslims...even Faisal said something to the same effect (then again he lives close to the holiest of gay shrines aka San Fransicko).
Any advice to such people is to straighten out before its too late.
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This lesbian relationship is the same as ANY relationship because it involves issues such as mutual respect and communication. When giving advice to someone you don’t shoot them down with your own moral framework. Every human has feelings and every human needs support.
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Saimanyc, its nice to see that you have compassion for the very people who will bring the wrath of Allah ( no doubt about it). First of all its all about choice and what a sick choice it is....second, its all made up crap and the sooner some one tells them the truth the better off they will be.
It has nothing to do with moral famework, its all about humanity. Ban G&L and save humanity.
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Kaleem, if this woman was there asking you about her problems, what would you do? Would you look at her and to her face say, "I don't care cause you're going to Hell anyways." Would you tell her she's sick and should not exist? What would you do?
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I will tell her straight up that I dont approve of her lifestyle and she should find a person who will care to listen about her pathetic sob story.
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There are four kinds of people. Read on.
Some people are so inherently unfriendly or ignorant that no one goes to them for advice, anyway. Whether they are hetrosexual issues or homosexual issues. So if you are one of those, there is no problem, as no one will come to you and you can stop reading any furter.
Some people are generally helpful in providing relationship advice to other people, however they are homophobic, and will be unhelpful for a homosexual person. Their view is either "get away from me, you sicko!", or "straighten up, before I talk to you!", or "you deserve what you get - hahaha". (ok, take out the "hahaha" portion, but you get the idea).
Some others don't agree with homosexual lifestyle, but believe that everyone is human. For them a relationship is a relationship, and since in a homosexual relationship, like in a heterosexual relationsip, you have two human beings involved, so the basic advice (communicate, evaluate, compromise, arbitrate etc) remains the same.
All others are gay.
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Faisal,
Does the third one also include people, who are let’s say, amorous towards animals? So let’s say someone comes to you for advice on how to improve relations between himself and his pet goat, do you also behave the same way towards them?
After all, it’s two of god’s creatures being involved in a relationship…So does the ‘communicate, evaluate, compromise and arbitrate etc’, come into play here too or for fear of being caught in Allah :swt:'s wrath you openly let that person know about how you feel? Do you at least try to tell them that you don’t approve of their actions and will have nothing of it?
Or do you, in order to project a lovey dovey picture of Islam and Muslims as an all-inclusive religion and faith start to get involved in their sickness?
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^^ i believe he was referring to relationships between humans.
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Lajawab, we all know that you, me and Kaleem are all #1, so I stopped reading after that. #3’s can go to hell! 
Happy Friday to you too.
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So what is wrong in the relationships between animals and humans? Or are you biased against animals and humans having relationships? You are such an ignorant bigot…
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Only issue with animals is that they cannot "communicate, evaluate, compromise, arbitrate"
Stop trying so hard...
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what aisha said.
to dumb it down for u....a lesbian can give her consent if her lesbian partner wants to make love to her. and a poor goat cant.....not to making love...nor to be cut up on bakra eid.
actually u made YOUR view quite clear by comparing homosexual relations to a case where a human will have a relationship with a goat....u bigot.
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Nia, if you really wanna give her advice, then give her advice just like you would to a girl if she was with a man. That's how they view their relationships, so the advice would be the same too. It doesnt matter if the partner is male or female, relationships are relationships.
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^
we are different emotionally arent we though?