Nik and X2’s answers gave me an idea that if a lady doesn’ t want children and wants to live a free life like only job and nothing else.I s it normal or abnormal?
In my opinion if something is going against the circle of life its not normal.
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circle of life?
circle of life?
lionking..
or maube UZ now believes in reincarnation...
lost another one to ditech..errr i mean hinduism
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depends..under normal circumstances, a couple who cannot conceive or a woman who never marries, i dont find them abnormal...
but a woman who keeps having abortions? dare i say...immoral? irresponsible? inhumane?
It’s probably normal to her.
Some people like to live a life free of responsibilities. But yeah, extreme situations of any kind are … extreme.
Re: Working ladies
not everyone wants or likes children. there is nothing wrong in not wanting to have kids. some women are as much workaholics as men. gender has nothing to do with it.
Oh yeah then where they get the money ? 
nikalo nikalo keeray achi tarah nikalo but I know you got my point
who never marries, i dont find them abnormal... but a woman who keeps having abortions? dare i say...immoral? irresponsible? inhumane?
Sara I am talking about these kind of ladies jin ko majboori ho woh to selfish nahi hoteen.
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sheep will always bleat at the mares. 
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I came to know thru my Indian colleagues that in South part of india, the ppl are very career oriented. And you will find a lot of such couples who do not have kids niether plan to go for any, coz both wife n husband are career freaks and they decide upon it before getting married. I was really shocked and kind of not believing that there can be such ppl too on earth for whom the life means only working and earning.
One same case i came across on internet, a paki divorcee gal residing in UK. Her parents were doctors and never wanted any kid. She said she came in world by their mistake n not that she was wanted. :(
I would say its NOT normal.
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^ and for who these ppl r making n saving all this money for? qaber main tu lay ja nahi saktay???
yes indeed ume sis its abnormal coz Allah ne jo kaam mardon k liye rakhay hn agar bagher kisi majburi k aurat kerna pasand karey apnay asal kaam se hut k then its abnormality not a normal.
her aik ko chahay wo aurat ho ya mard apni apni specific dutiz sambhalni chahiyen
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wesay yahan konsi aesi khaatoon hai Ume sis! hai koi aesi? agar hai tu usay psychological treatment ki zarurat hai
:)
ask her tu get a mental treatment
immediatly
:)
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and the witch-hunt has begun..
what is more "normal" and which is more selfish:
not having kids as a conscious decision to pursue a career.
having kids because you are expected to do so by everyone around you.
having kids so you have someone to love and take care you in your old age.
having kids because you think it will earn you brownie points that'll get you into heaven.
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- having kids because they are a blessing, when you hold them you experience a unique satisfaction that cannot be described, when you care for them you feel like a complete and selfless human being.
However, some people who are tested and cannot have children have greater blessings in store for them by God. And those who choose not to have kids, well that's their choice again.
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normal - I think if she wants to be totally free life - I would suggest not getting married either.
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how can a woman feel complete without a baby?
Once, before getting married, we were discussing names with an aunty and her daughter’s name was Fatima. Fatima asked her mom what’s the meaning of my name and her mom said, it means feeding woman.. and fatima was like kiaaa? ammi kuch soch ke to mera naam rakha hota 
and aunty told her it actually means a complete woman.. a woman is never complete until she gives birth.
I dont know about others.. but in my opinion, yeah! its abnormal
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wat about nto getting married? is it normal? yes it is and its that persons choice yada yada bla bla etc etc. so y not having children can be a womans choice?
if theres nothing wrong in not getting married then theres nothign wrong in not having children too.