Its amazing to read how ppl can judge others situation so well!!!
one must realize, its not so easy to tell her parents about all this…
my marrige is somewhat the same! i studied and graduated in UK, my hubby was my senior. He kept following me for 4 yrs in my education era.. where ever i used to go, he was there. meat shop to salon, parking to gym, he was just everywhere. Like that girl i also tried everything. Without a doubt he was very very intelligent and always having A+ grades.
my parents were in dubai and so was his. he send a proposal to my folks through his parents, which my parents accepted as he was a british passport holder and already appointed on a good position in Dubai.
I used to shout at him, yell at him and abuse him. but he kept coming back!!! he said mar kay bhi tum jaisi lerki nai milay gi mujhay… regardless of my dear guppies watever has happened in my after marrige life he is a good man by heart and loves my daughters..
anyways my parents called me and said we have a proposal for u… i was like OK!!! UK mein hai, blah blah all that stuff. i asked my folks do u have his picture. they said not yet but soon. the next week my dad mailed me his pic, i was soooooooooooooooo stunned and shocked. he called me that i have a good news for u… i was so annoyed and angry i called my folks and told them, i am not marrying him, and my parents were like kya burai hai us mein… i said he is after me for so long time… my mother said has he ever done anything bad to u, touched u or anything, i said no!!!
well to cut the story short!!! i married him
HAHA. You got lucky. The cousin that was like stalking me was like unparh and awaara. And its’ the same case for my friend. Like the boy is super over and wierd. Like the types that stand outside girls colleges in Pakistan and whistle at girls.