I'm really sorry we don't see through the same lens but I guess that's the difference
Where I come from if a man cheats or does anything to hurt her the father, brother or uncle will be the first in there to get her out, it depends on the society you come from I suppose, and its just sad that pakistanis in general aren't on the lookout to help such women
as for their children - do you honestly think its better for them to grow up knowing there father is cheating on their mother? I know a situation and the woman was in such depression that the kids were going nuts
Its not right. Its not fair. It happens. But we need to fight it and help these people, not sit back and accept it, we need to change this attitude people take in our culture of hiding behind closed doors, we need to start asking people how their marriages are working even after the wedding and walima
ALSO, by a heart to heart I didnt mean anything naughty simply that my husband knows me best and he also knows that I would never take any form of cheating - and I do love him but that wont stop me from walking away the moment he has broken my trust
if there is not trust then what exactly are you trying to save in a marriage?
I think you haven't been to that kind of situation I saw.
Do you know no matter what happens between parents KIDS never wants seperation between their parents. NEVER NEVER NEVER.
Kids will blame you if you will leave. PPl mistreat that lady and her kids. She left alone.
Baap bhai uncle twinkle sub shuru main madad kar saktay hain sari zindagi naheen. Baap aur uncle aik waqt pay maar jain gay. Bhai shadi kay baad badal jatay hain. Unki biwion ko bahan ki madad pasand naheen ati khuwah bahan kitni bhi zaroorat mund ho phir us larki aur us kay buchchon ko daikhnay wala koi naheen hota. Wo khud tanha apnay buchchon kay saath rehti hai.
Ub buchchon ko chor kar ussay kamana bhi hota hai ghar chalanay ko. Agar wo chala bhi lay to buchchay baap naheen honay ki wajah say bigar bhi jaatay hain.
Logon kay tanaay aur buchchon kay saath bura sulook alag hai.
Ub agar aap ki buchchi hai to loag us say shadi karna naheen chahain gay kay uski maan aisi thi kay talaq lay li to beti bhi aisi hi ho gi aur aisa hi karay gi. Ya yay bhi kahain gay kay iska baap awara tha to yay bhi awar ho gi.
I have seen how ppl behave with divorce or seperated lady and her kids.
A selfish lady can think only for herself not for her kids.