No I'm not saying that let him go off the hook.
I didn't understand your second line.
Yeah sometimes no strength and sometimes for the sake of child and sometimes for society ki toba tillah and many other things.
Ladies main kum hi himmat hoti hai. Himmat bhi wo hi kar pateen hain jo khudgharz hoteen hain aur sirf apni khushi aur apna mafaad daikhteen hain buchchon ka naheen. Wo bhi wo us waqt karti hain jub unkay pass job hoti hai aur kamati hain to warna kon poora karay ga unka sub kuch. Parents aur bhai bahan hamaisha naheen poochtay aur jin main himmat hota hai akelay rehnay ka.
Bohat si batain hoti hain. Agar larki shohar ki mohabbat main giraftar ho to bhi naheen chorna chahti. Khud ghurz aurtain husbands say mohabbat naheen karteen.
I'm really sorry we don't see through the same lens but I guess that's the difference
Where I come from if a man cheats or does anything to hurt her the father, brother or uncle will be the first in there to get her out, it depends on the society you come from I suppose, and its just sad that pakistanis in general aren't on the lookout to help such women
as for their children - do you honestly think its better for them to grow up knowing there father is cheating on their mother? I know a situation and the woman was in such depression that the kids were going nuts
Its not right. Its not fair. It happens. But we need to fight it and help these people, not sit back and accept it, we need to change this attitude people take in our culture of hiding behind closed doors, we need to start asking people how their marriages are working even after the wedding and walima
ALSO, by a heart to heart I didnt mean anything naughty simply that my husband knows me best and he also knows that I would never take any form of cheating - and I do love him but that wont stop me from walking away the moment he has broken my trust
if there is not trust then what exactly are you trying to save in a marriage?