women who hope to find men for themselves, are a loser.

[Dushwari]

Re: women who hope to find men for themselves, are a loser.

Anil,

You do not go through what women go through, when young men betray these young women. Baat ana kee hey, asool kee hey, insaaf kee hey.

God is over looking all of us. No, it is not male-bashing. I am not perfect. You're not perfect... all of us are not god-like.

Yet, we are "humankind", because we have the ability to "think" and communicate our worries and concerns, voice our sense of injustice and express due disgust against hypocrisy.

Ever since the beginning of time, marriages between suitable males and females have been the basis of a society, and since to a considerable extent - recently, dating, has become so basic a part of South East Asian culture, we have our ethics. And all I want to draw attention to, for all of us is that we cannot play the game of winning over, just to let down other people, with whom claims are made to commit and then that does not happen - for better or for worse.

Wish you the best,

DUSH.

@Anil Khan

I can't believe all the male bashing that goes on amongst the Pakistani girls/women (I don't like the word "desi"). I have never been around any females (pakistani, that is) that have ever praised or said good things about their husbands.

Its sad really; it seems like you guys are never happy. If you think that your husbands should follow your every word and treat it as a command, then I'm sorry to disappoint you but its not gonna happen. Its not in our genes. However, if you give respect and love to your husbands then I'm sure they will do everything in their power to give you all the happiness they can give/ (afford) :).