Yup, that's what I am trying to say...it's the norm!! that's why I mentioned that we shouldn't see it from 'our religious and cultural perspective' because that skews our perception. I don't understand why this concept is so hard to grasp???
Exactly, how brilliantly you use the most appropriate words to convey your thoughts. It does skew our perception. We should not be biased and see it from a neutral perspective. It is the normal thing to do. Even the people in the west usually enjoy it in a fun normal way, it is only some creeps who give a bad after taste in the mouths of everyone. It is hard to grasp dear cherry because some people might lack the appropriate comprehension skills or either they don't want to grasp it and come up with nonsensical refutes.