I find it really amusing how people are not grasping the idea that going to nightclubs and bars in the west is such a normal thing to do. It is the NORM. Get it? Everyone does it. If people and especially females thought that oh, we will avoid having some fun at the bar tonight because we might get raped then the bars and nightclubs will go out of business. No one thinks like that, or thinks negatively because let me STRESS on it again, it is the NORM.
Yup, that's what I am trying to say...it's the norm!! that's why I mentioned that we shouldn't see it from 'our religious and cultural perspective' because that skews our perception. I don't understand why this concept is so hard to grasp???