Re: Women say if you were raped, it is your own fault
I am sorry Sara but I think you have deeply misunderstood my post. It's calling reading comprehension.....in Western culture, accepting drinks form random guys in bars is very normal!!! I am not offended by you bringing Islamic values! I am very much a Muslim myself so please spare me the lecture about how everyone is Muslim here....I think I figured that out when I signed onto a Pakistani forum.......
I am saying that if you look at it from a religious perspective, yes we will think oh the girl shouldn't be walking alone in a parking lot and even going to a bar! but these situations are very common here amongst the non-Muslims.
Again, accepting drinks from strangers is very normal. If the guy puts a drug in that drink, it's HIS fault! And if a girl consents to going home with a guy, he hits the jackpot but if she is drugged and taken to a strange place or the guy's place WITHOUT her consent, that is wrong and no matter what anyone says, and no matter what she is wearing and no matter how drunk she is, the guy is wrong and should be severely punished.