Women say if you were raped, it is your own fault

You're arguing a point that sounds very nice to the ears...and thats about it.

Again, no one is playing the blame game here...why are you not understanding this?

A woman who gets intoxicated beyond her limits has a HIGHER chance of getting in trouble...much higher. No one is interested in who is to blame after a crime as heinous as rape occurs. Do you think an actual rape victim's pain is any less just because a judge decides to punish her attacker and put it on paper that it was all HIS fault? No.

"What can be done to make sure it doesnt happen again?" is the more productive question.