Re: Women please give me some ideas!
The thing is that we muslim men have gotten a bad reputation via media so much that 1 person’s fault is making us all look idiots who beat their wives.
I have a question to ask all the girls who say that Muslim men are cheaters or beat their wives or are simply dumb .. Is you father that kind of a person? Is you brother like that? Do you think you father is a cheater? or the one who beats his wife? or the one who is just simply dumb?
I am sure most of you will reply NO to the questions. Now think how many other father are there who are just like you own father.. u do the math and if you get stuck with addition come to me.. i will help you.
The idea that Muslim Men are the ones who beat their wives is way too much blown up by media.
Lets look at the Non-Muslim world as well shall we?
There are men who are abusive towards their children and wives but there are women who are abusive towards their husband and children.
The point is that Islam has clear rules for everything. There are jobs that Allah has choosen women to do and then their are jobs that only men can do.. you don’t like this? tooo bad!
I have always felt bad at those women who actually give up the biggest honour given to humankind by Allah.. by far the importance of being a mother is far far far far greater then father..
Also, if you wish to work then by all means go ahead work after all you worked hard to get education why not use it and satisfy yourself but remember our ultimate goal is to please Allah if we can’t do that then not worth living …
just my 2 cents