summary of the thread:
Pakistani FOB men are cretins. They ogle, pinch rape women. -- CHECK
Pakistani ABCD girls are slutty -- at least most of them -- and have Bfs -- CHECK
Pakistani ABCD men are not oglers, and dont pinch and rape women -- CHECK
Innocent pakistani girls who live in pakistan are nice, pious girls and are constantly harrassed by evil pakistani FOBs -- CHECK.
Seems like the solution is ABCD pakistani men marrying gals from back home and leave the FOB men to marrying the ABCD girls. Let the dogs and the bit***es finish each other off!!
Sad bhaiijaan. I guess your cousin and me are in same boat :) This lahori girl used to give me a long list of items to get from lahore whenever I visited Pakistan.. but as they love's blind- I spent lot of $$ like a fool. She hated Punjabi language, thinks Pak is too dirty to live and would call her abbu an idiot.. But again, I am not basing anything on one experience I had.
Although i agree with u that ABCD's are sluttier than desi girlz back home, they have a point. The things that happen in Pakistani bazars are crude and pathetic.
Why?
Coz this is what the boyz learn there, to do cheap things, i don't mean all of them but many of them. The oogle, rub and pass idiotic comments. And more often than not they get away with it. For a decent desi girl who doesn't want to be rubbed against, its much better to be in Mall in USA than in Pakistan.
that’s the problem! guys rub decent girls cause they know these girls are very shareef and well trained by their moms to lowere gaze and say nothing, even when jerks are molesting their honor:mad:!
girls with big muscles and an AK-47 kinda look don’t get rubbed:halo:…lol
the key to NOT being molested in bazaars in pak and india is to look at guys with the same hate and anger than any men would look at them, without hijaab, it’s working a lil more cause guys trust your strength more without hijaab..
don’t know why guy think women in hijaab are weak
Do you know how bad a "bad temper" can be? My brother and mother have horrible tempers, cursing, hitting, screaming, yelling the most disgusting things. When he's pissed off, he won't shy away from cursing his own father. And although I've never acted on it, when I get angry i feel like I can literally kill someoen wtih my bare hands. I have a young cousin who will chase after his 17 yr old cousin wiht a chair or a knife because she accidentally hit him, and his family is so fking stupid and clueless that they let him scream and yell and try to break down teh door. I wouldn't let my daughter marry someone liek that at all, i'd be afraid that one day she'll be on the end of his anger, intentional or not. They had every right to reject him.
And another thing, what right does he have to ask for any money back from her at all? Obviously she was serious about marriage, else her mother and aunt woudln't've been invovled. Everything he did for her, he did it out of "love" and respect and friendship, not so that he could get something in return.
And another thing, what right does he have to ask for any money back from her at all? Obviously she was serious about marriage, else her mother and aunt woudln't've been invovled. Everything he did for her, he did it out of "love" and respect and friendship, not so that he could get something in return.
They thought he had a temper since he got mad that her family wouldnt give an answer. We waited 3+ weeks.
we sent the rishta, they didnt, infact they purposely tried to offend us so we wud take it back..it was my mom, his mom, and our aunts who went over there not the other way around, if she was serious about the marriage they wud be married right now, but she wasnt cuz, she was just using him. but their family was crazy neway, i know for a fact that one of her sisters is a total slut, meaning she meets guys online and hooks up with them and she wears hijab so nobody would suspect anything. anyway in ur opinion gold-diggers r entitled to everything they get under false pretenses.
Plz, dont try to defend people like this just because their girls.
okay can u plz tell me wat should be the role of our media in this issue. i think they violate hijaab too much. shouldn't they be ammended n relieve this whole tension. hijaab fits in our culture naturally. media is doing the worst it can coz teens just want a change 4om average life n r prone to deviation. so they r being lured away from our religious as well as cultural values. our own media has a great part in offending our own religion and culutre! how satiric....
ahh, sorry, I completely lost you on the “no hijab == kafir”; who are we (or you) to judge when a person is kafir; I believe the word “kafir” is someone who doesn’t believe in Allah; no where in islam does it say that someon not performing some fard or sunnah practice automatically becomes a kafir - would you say that someone who doesn’t pray or fast or gives zakat, is a kafir???
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