Re: Women in Hijjab in Pakistan
**If she is she does not promote WOMANHOOD.
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I strongly disagree with her for considering anyone who doesn’t wear hijab a hypocrite or a kafir..its arrogancy and its not the type of attitude thats needed of Muslims at all.. 
** Nothing is more important for a woman than education in life and being raised to possess self confidence and inner strenghth .
**Agree wit ya here, but who are you to say women who wear hijab are not confident and weak? I know plenty of girls who are confident and smart and, in some ways strong. They are very gorgeous w/o their hijab and their hair down, but they cover up anyway coz they know that’s what’s right.. Physically a scarf can suit some girls, and not others.. bu tthe ones who it doesnt suit (aesthetically speaking) and they wear it, gud for em.. that takes alotta confidence :k:
** There will always be people who will use GOD as an admonition for a woman to remain in her ‘place’ and usually by males who have dominated society’s socio-political enironment. And there will always be people who will tell a woman be more quite, be less assertive, be less challenging , be more subdued, be less visible etc
WHY? WHY? WHY? . Example: Should the spouse die etc they are left bereft and society around quickly assumes she needs man and all will be well. If she has children they say poor widow , find her a man. Some are so loss they do not know how to proceed in being self reliant. Self reliance begins with enlightenment!! Having a good education is the most important. Having good marketable employment skills follows. It is so important to develope these skills before marriage and keeping them uptodate while married if not working! This will help develop confidence, stamina and spine in a woman to stand stall and not be seen as a victim but a TALL STRONG INDEPENDENT WOMAN no matter the height in frame and no matter what befalls at her feet whether she be single, married or widowed.**
Tell that to men whos egos feel threatened because their wife wants to worK 
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As a woman make noise, be adorned and make yourself beautiful in day of light , be recognized , pe proud of your sex and be proud of your own choices that make you happy in life** for nothing is easier than being a meek sheep and even perhaps a victim of circumstance and ALLAH will look upon you with pride. THis wisdom comes my mother!
** Remember for every strong woman out there the future is bright for all little girls who want to be more than someone’s obedient daughter, wife , or woman of society for many are out there believing a woman in a Burqa is her place and thus a non entitiy on the street, especially in parochial dominated societies. History is witness to this truth.**
Burqa does not mean a woman is being controlled by a man, again most of the womne I know (speakin froM Ameircan perspective) feel more in control when they wear it. Personally speaking, my dad NEVER forced it on my mom, she took it on her own.. in fact she only did it when her friend who was married toa molvi, started wearing nikaab, but she took it off and 10-12 yrs later my mom hasn’t and still gets made fun of by my phupo sometimes for keeping her burka on at weddings 
I don’t speak for pakistani or arab society since I am not from the latter, but here in America most women have a choice of what they wanna wear, whether its a miniskir,t or a burka.. it all boils down to personal choice..
** The struggle for women in countries like Aghanistan, Saudia Arabia I can never empathize with as I have never experienced such suppression of my womanhood but have much sympathy. There are still too many societies in this world where women struggle !!
**I was arguing about this in my international relations class, because a lot of stuff i’ve read in textboosk and American media, they make too much of an emphasis on hijab/scarf/abaya/burka. I’m gonna go out on a limb here and say that I think women there have bigger things to worry about than covering their hair and body, like how to feed and support their families since earning a decent living there would not be as easy as say over here.
DON"T be a victim BE A WOMAN.