Since dailymail is all so awesome…i thought i would look it up…
Here is an article that talks about women getting so desperate to find companionship…they are dishing out lots of cash in hopes of learning tricks…it used to be guys doing that before…
Could a wild weekend with the love guru help YOU find the ideal man?
The meeting room is filled with chatter as 68 women, all strangers, swarm into an unprepossessing Holiday Inn in London.
There are nurses, lawyers, social workers and hedge fund managers, aged from their late 20s to early 50s. But one thing unites them: everyone, including me, is single — and very eager not to be.
We’ve each paid £500 in the desperate belief we can change this status by spending just two days in the company one man — the phenomenon that is Matthew Hussey.
The dating guru promises that he can transform a lovelorn woman’s life in a weekend with a ‘foolproof’ plan that’s been taking the nation’s singletons by storm.
His Get The Guy seminars and events are sold out up and down the country and around the globe. In the next month alone he’s travelling to New York, Los Angeles, Slovenia and the Dominican Republic. His online coaching videos get millions of hits.
He claims to have helped tens of thousands of women in Britain, and three million worldwide, and t
Re: Women getting increasingly desperate to find guys??
Nomi (and this will probably count as your Ignore # 4 or 5 or whatever)...but the fact that you have to post a "visual" reminder for yourself to ignore someone.....it makes you seem like less of an adult and more of a child. On one hand while you tell others to develop a tougher skin and stop being princesses and whatever.....anything that is said by a guppan is perceived by you as "having a go at you" and I see that as a contradiction. I also see the "ignore # bla" posts as a contradition to the "tougher skin" point as well. Perhaps you're planning to use all these "ignore" posts as some sort of proof to show the mods when it comes time to complaining about a member.....cuz I don't see any other possible reason/purpose for them. Most adults can manage to ignore without posting a record.
Re: Women getting increasingly desperate to find guys??
Nomi (and this will probably count as your Ignore # 4 or 5 or whatever)...but the fact that you have to post a "visual" reminder for yourself to ignore someone.....it makes you seem like less of an adult and more of a child. On one hand while you tell others to develop a tougher skin and stop being princesses and whatever.....anything that is said by a guppan is perceived by you as "having a go at you." Perhaps you're planning to use all these "ignore" posts as some sort of proof to show the mods when it comes time to complaining about a member.....cuz I don't see any other possible reason/purpose for them. Most adults can manage to ignore without posting a record.
Ignore no.4............ sticking to topic is really hard eh??
Re: Women getting increasingly desperate to find guys??
attracting men is not a problem for most women as long as they are not obese and hideous.
men are willing to provide women, their company and intimacy unconditionally.
These women are not going to the coaching to attract 'men'...they want to attract the 'man of their dreams'. most of these older, educated, successful career women have become so rigid in their preferences, have huge checklists regarding the qualities they want in a man that most men simply cannot measure up. These women would rather stay single and become cat ladies than actually flex their standards and have relationships with men who are their equivalents. part of the problem is that they are by nature more self-sufficient.
Its not that these women dont have a dating life. Its not that they cannot walk into a bar and easily pick men for some companionship and sex. Its not that they cannot create a profile on a dating site and get a few dozen responses in a month and then choose whether they want to meet those men or not, Its not that they cannot attract men in their social circle and workplace.....its just that they are unimpressed by most men.
Please dont equate it to men going to dating coaches, downloading E-books on PUA tactics. when a man needs that help, its usually a sign of something serious. it usually means that he cannot attract women at all. not just the kind he 'dreams about'. when a man is lonely not by choice, it means he hasnt been able to have any female companionship at all. and when he says he is sexually frustrated, it means he has been rejected by women over and over again...by most woman and not just the kind he fantasizes about. when a man turns to (mostly useless) help, you can be assured that he has flexed his standards / expectations a lot and still he struggles.
Perhaps thats why dating advice aimed at women is always about "get the guy of your dreams" and "how to attract Mr Right" but for men its always about "how to attract WOMEN". bcos many men are just unable to hold any appeal to women at all.
Re: Women getting increasingly desperate to find guys??
attracting men is not a problem for most women as long as they are not obese and hideous.
men are willing to provide women, their company and intimacy unconditionally.
These women are not going to the coaching to attract 'men'...they want to attract the 'man of their dreams'. most of these older, educated, successful career women have become so rigid in their preferences, have huge checklists regarding the qualities they want in a man that most men simply cannot measure up. These women would rather stay single and become cat ladies than actually flex their standards and have relationships with men who are their equivalents. part of the problem is that they are by nature more self-sufficient.
Its not that these women dont have a dating life. Its not that they cannot walk into a bar and easily pick men for some companionship and sex. Its not that they cannot create a profile on a dating site and get a few dozen responses in a month and then choose whether they want to meet those men or not, Its not that they cannot attract men in their social circle and workplace.....its just that they are unimpressed by most men.
Please dont equate it to men going to dating coaches, downloading E-books on PUA tactics. when a man needs that help, its usually a sign of something serious. it usually means that he cannot attract women at all. not just the kind he 'dreams about'. when a man is lonely not by choice, it means he hasnt been able to have any female companionship at all. and when he says he is sexually frustrated, it means he has been rejected by women over and over again...by most woman and not just the kind he fantasizes about. when a man turns to (mostly useless) help, you can be assured that he has flexed his standards / expectations a lot and still he struggles.
Perhaps thats why dating advice aimed at women is always about "get the guy of your dreams" and "how to attract Mr Right" but for men its always about "how to attract WOMEN". bcos many men are just unable to hold any appeal to women at all.
Re: Women getting increasingly desperate to find guys??
attracting men is not a problem for most women as long as they are not obese and hideous.
men are willing to provide women, their company and intimacy unconditionally.
These women are not going to the coaching to attract 'men'...they want to attract the 'man of their dreams'. most of these older, educated, successful career women have become so rigid in their preferences, have huge checklists regarding the qualities they want in a man that most men simply cannot measure up. These women would rather stay single and become cat ladies than actually flex their standards and have relationships with men who are their equivalents. part of the problem is that they are by nature more self-sufficient.
Its not that these women dont have a dating life. Its not that they cannot walk into a bar and easily pick men for some companionship and sex. Its not that they cannot create a profile on a dating site and get a few dozen responses in a month and then choose whether they want to meet those men or not, Its not that they cannot attract men in their social circle and workplace.....its just that they are unimpressed by most men.
Please dont equate it to men going to dating coaches, downloading E-books on PUA tactics. when a man needs that help, its usually a sign of something serious. it usually means that he cannot attract women at all. not just the kind he 'dreams about'. when a man is lonely not by choice, it means he hasnt been able to have any female companionship at all. and when he says he is sexually frustrated, it means he has been rejected by women over and over again...by most woman and not just the kind he fantasizes about. when a man turns to (mostly useless) help, you can be assured that he has flexed his standards / expectations a lot and still he struggles.
Perhaps thats why dating advice aimed at women is always about "get the guy of your dreams" and "how to attract Mr Right" but for men its always about "how to attract WOMEN". bcos many men are just unable to hold any appeal to women at all.
and you think its really differnt than what is marketed to guys?? just because they added "dream man" you think this is somewhat different than the typical guy targeted programs???
Re: Women getting increasingly desperate to find guys??
coming from a different angle - it has been a man dominated world since day One. men have used and abused women as multiple wives, slaves, mistresses, etc. etc.
keeping it simple and short - women today have become a commodity to men (yet again)
200 years ago world was very different for women but now with all these laws etc. that give so called independence to women - but the society has re-adjusted itself again to a man dominated world.
(hats off to whoever can link it to the original post)
Re: Women getting increasingly desperate to find guys??
Hahaha wow! That guy has exploited the market brilliantly!
Basically, be flirty, supergirly, act a bit silly and never refuse anything a guy tells you to do in the bedroom?
So he's teaching women that they need to act like giggly teens and basically not to be themselves to attract men?
And they're paying him?
So this IS what women want!
Fella must be laughing all the way to the bank.
Don't blame him though.
He's just a smart hustler.
Re: Women getting increasingly desperate to find guys??
and you think its really differnt than what is marketed to guys?? just because they added "dream man" you think this is somewhat different than the typical guy targeted programs???
I dont know how the content of the program is different from whats targeted to men. but like i already explained, the purposes they fulfill are very different.
for instance this guy is telling women to do this or that in the bedroom for the man she desires in order to keep him interested in whatever arrangement SHE wants. this implies that attraction, dating and having sexual relationships arent a problem at all for these women, despite many of them being middle aged and mostly ok/alright looking at best.
advice for men is about getting into the bedroom in the first place.
Its not the same for men and women...you have a lot to learn.
Re: Women getting increasingly desperate to find guys??
coming from a different angle - it has been a man dominated world since day One. men have used and abused women as multiple wives, slaves, mistresses, etc. etc.
keeping it simple and short - women today have become a commodity to men (yet again)
200 years ago world was very different for women but now with all these laws etc. that give so called independence to women - but the society has re-adjusted itself again to a man dominated world.
(hats off to whoever can link it to the original post)
ignore No.5